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Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Japanese population is declined while India having population explosion.
Fyi both our esteemed members Mr. Singh and Mr. Vijay, the concerned member has been gently told in quite polite words before this and he still persisted in his doings, which led to strong language. If you think it is infructuous and waste of time discussion, then I cannot help it, members like to have such discussions from time to time., since you both are here only for a short time comparatively, you may have missed other discussions. But I do find that such discussions are quite necessary and needed occasionally. Not my problem if you do not agree.
Mr. Vijay, thanks for enlightening us all with attributes of mentoring as a moderator, but we know what kind of language should be used to what kind of members. So thank you.
And since no one is desirous of letting the topic go and it offends you all so much , I am locking this thread. It has no further utility left.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby liked the topic How funny can a religion be. .
Is father's lust towards his daughter justified? Answer should be naturally in the negative. But answer by religious authority could differ. See here how this is justified by religious authority in a Fatawa. .
http://www.jewsnews.co.il/2016/02/25/new-islamic-fatwa-a-fathers-lust-for-his-daughter-is-not-a-sin-if-the-daughter-is-over-9-years-old/
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Let's discuss facts.
suni51 wrote:
@Vijai let's discuss facts, and the facts are weird than fictions some times. When the discussion begins it goes right and left or up and down espcially when the nation is on the stake.
@Jincy Aby you mean you liked my post to tell me I forgot one N
I have added so many Ns in the thread you can easily forgive me for one N for a change. But I agree I made a mistake and here goes that N in its right place
Some phrases are in English that people cannot understand the real meaning of that so easily. When I read that thread, first I thought that 'price crowd' is also a phrase like that. It took time to understand that sentence. I brought this points here just for clearing my doubt. Please don't mind.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Japanese population is declined while India having population explosion.
If u read between lines my intention was to inculcate a sense of balance in the moderator's language which most of the time is threatening. A moderator has to be neutral and persuasive and mentoring. Bias cannot be a basis of advice. You also give advice from time to time but do not bully or threaten. Rambabu can do it for he is not a moderator.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Let's discuss facts.
Hope Rambabu does not welcome his latest heroes.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic How funny can a religion be. .
Loving couples even in teenage are moving freely by holding their hands together. Then what is the problem if engaged couples hold their hands together?
9 years ago
Jincy Aby liked the topic some unusual law .
Do you know that for flying kites, you need a license. There are many legal provisions which are absurd. But these are hardly known or implemented. Many of these are funny.
https://in.news.yahoo.com/photos/unusual-things-illegal-india-080952972/
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Dowry and alimony.
If people in a family are broad minded, they can accept a girl inside their family without dowry. How many people are ready to marry a girl without dowry? These kind of possibilities are only in love marriage especially when the couples do register marriage without getting permission and support from family members.
If the husband and wife are financially well settled, they do not try for getting alimony during the time of divorce. They give least importance to such matters.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic some unusual law .
Some of the laws are quite meaningful while rest are meaningless but the point is all these laws are sleeping nowadays. Those which have no relevance today must be allowed to rest in peace but the meaningful ones must be made very active such as no night shifts for the ladies.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic some unusual law .
Flying kite is one of the interesting activities among children. Even small children can fly kite very easily. I don't understand why there is license for flying kite. Will they punish the little cute children whether they fly kite for enjoyment? Really a funny law.
9 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Dowry and alimony.
Your comparison of two dissimilar matters is devoid of
all logic and rationality. The diference between the two sticks out a mile. It is in keeping with civilized practices of the world to protect the financial stakes of a weak party who is caught holding the rough end of the stick of a failed marital relationship. Dowry is rooted in savagery while alimony stands at an altogether different plane!!
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Dowry and alimony.
Asking for dowry is a crime but it is still prevalent in our society. The girl's side must not give dowry in any circumstance because the men who accept dowry in marriage are not worthy to get married. Now, comes the question of alimony, regarding it I will second @usha manohar's opinion but with a minor twist. I would prefer ladies not to accept alimony from their husband with whom their relationship has gone sour and by doing so their self respect will rise. Yes, there are some circumstances when the divorced ladies are left with no choice and are willingly/unwillingly have to accept alimony. On the other hand I am against those ladies who file false cases to harass the husband and the in-laws. They in no way deserve alimony but if their is a child in between then certainly the man as a father has a responsibility towards his child so for his/her sake one must take care of the child's need such as education and all other requirements.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Dirty politics and vendetta by the grand old party !.
Conflict is always between the ruling party and the opposition party. They cannot recognize each other. The people who support BJP can never recognize the decisions of the Congress party and the supporters of Congress party never accept the policies of BJP government. Criticism is always between these two political parties.
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Japanese population is declined while India having population explosion.
Fyi both our esteemed members Mr. Singh and Mr. Vijay, the concerned member has been gently told in quite polite words before this and he still persisted in his doings, which led to strong language. If you think it is infructuous and waste of time discussion, then I cannot help it, members like to have such discussions from time to time., since you both are here only for a short time comparatively, you may have missed other discussions. But I do find that such discussions are quite necessary and needed occasionally. Not my problem if you do not agree.
Mr. Vijay, thanks for enlightening us all with attributes of mentoring as a moderator, but we know what kind of language should be used to what kind of members. So thank you.
And since no one is desirous of letting the topic go and it offends you all so much , I am locking this thread. It has no further utility left.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby liked the topic How funny can a religion be. .
Is father's lust towards his daughter justified? Answer should be naturally in the negative. But answer by religious authority could differ. See here how this is justified by religious authority in a Fatawa. .
http://www.jewsnews.co.il/2016/02/25/new-islamic-fatwa-a-fathers-lust-for-his-daughter-is-not-a-sin-if-the-daughter-is-over-9-years-old/
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Let's discuss facts.
suni51 wrote:
@Vijai let's discuss facts, and the facts are weird than fictions some times. When the discussion begins it goes right and left or up and down espcially when the nation is on the stake.
@Jincy Aby you mean you liked my post to tell me I forgot one N
I have added so many Ns in the thread you can easily forgive me for one N for a change. But I agree I made a mistake and here goes that N in its right place
Some phrases are in English that people cannot understand the real meaning of that so easily. When I read that thread, first I thought that 'price crowd' is also a phrase like that. It took time to understand that sentence. I brought this points here just for clearing my doubt. Please don't mind.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Japanese population is declined while India having population explosion.
If u read between lines my intention was to inculcate a sense of balance in the moderator's language which most of the time is threatening. A moderator has to be neutral and persuasive and mentoring. Bias cannot be a basis of advice. You also give advice from time to time but do not bully or threaten. Rambabu can do it for he is not a moderator.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Let's discuss facts.
Hope Rambabu does not welcome his latest heroes.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic How funny can a religion be. .
Loving couples even in teenage are moving freely by holding their hands together. Then what is the problem if engaged couples hold their hands together?
9 years ago
Jincy Aby liked the topic some unusual law .
Do you know that for flying kites, you need a license. There are many legal provisions which are absurd. But these are hardly known or implemented. Many of these are funny.
https://in.news.yahoo.com/photos/unusual-things-illegal-india-080952972/
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Dowry and alimony.
If people in a family are broad minded, they can accept a girl inside their family without dowry. How many people are ready to marry a girl without dowry? These kind of possibilities are only in love marriage especially when the couples do register marriage without getting permission and support from family members.
If the husband and wife are financially well settled, they do not try for getting alimony during the time of divorce. They give least importance to such matters.
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic some unusual law .
Some of the laws are quite meaningful while rest are meaningless but the point is all these laws are sleeping nowadays. Those which have no relevance today must be allowed to rest in peace but the meaningful ones must be made very active such as no night shifts for the ladies.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic some unusual law .
Flying kite is one of the interesting activities among children. Even small children can fly kite very easily. I don't understand why there is license for flying kite. Will they punish the little cute children whether they fly kite for enjoyment? Really a funny law.
9 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Dowry and alimony.
Your comparison of two dissimilar matters is devoid of
all logic and rationality. The diference between the two sticks out a mile. It is in keeping with civilized practices of the world to protect the financial stakes of a weak party who is caught holding the rough end of the stick of a failed marital relationship. Dowry is rooted in savagery while alimony stands at an altogether different plane!!
9 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Dowry and alimony.
Asking for dowry is a crime but it is still prevalent in our society. The girl's side must not give dowry in any circumstance because the men who accept dowry in marriage are not worthy to get married. Now, comes the question of alimony, regarding it I will second @usha manohar's opinion but with a minor twist. I would prefer ladies not to accept alimony from their husband with whom their relationship has gone sour and by doing so their self respect will rise. Yes, there are some circumstances when the divorced ladies are left with no choice and are willingly/unwillingly have to accept alimony. On the other hand I am against those ladies who file false cases to harass the husband and the in-laws. They in no way deserve alimony but if their is a child in between then certainly the man as a father has a responsibility towards his child so for his/her sake one must take care of the child's need such as education and all other requirements.
9 years ago
Jincy Aby replied to the topic Dirty politics and vendetta by the grand old party !.
Conflict is always between the ruling party and the opposition party. They cannot recognize each other. The people who support BJP can never recognize the decisions of the Congress party and the supporters of Congress party never accept the policies of BJP government. Criticism is always between these two political parties.
9 years ago