Your preparation before marriage

I am not a girl but I have heard that girls feel as concerned just before marriage as boys but for different reasons. Girls worry about maters like their future life partners if it’s an arranged marriage, their own future married life and the life style they would keep after marriage. Yes, I know this is almost a new life after marriage especially for girls because they have to adjust with a new environment after the marriage. And to top it all the problems for most girls begin before the marriage itself because it invariably brings about a new life and lifestyle for most girls.

You may find it funny if you are not a girl and not gone through this situation but the fact is that girls have too many problems to solve just before their marriage takes place. Would you like to have a look and find solutions for their BIG problems before marriage itself! 

Problem #1 Marriage dresses and footwear – Here begins the whole problem with how to find a suitable dress and matching sandal for the big day and once they find one finally wearing the same becomes bigger problem finding suitable accessories like matching ‘dupatta’ or fitting of the dress as per satisfaction. To make things more complicated the imaginary problems like how to adjust with the dress and footwear on big day fearing a sudden fall or not able to manage them properly!

My suggestions- 

Try your clothes well in advance with a full dress rehearsal. Keep every thing ready before hand including safety pins, clips, sandals, fake bridal jewelry, which is very much part of a bridal dress these days along with footwear. Use these items a few times to develop a sense of confidence.

• Have your clothes altered before hand if necessary to save yourself from embarrassment at zero hour. Do not allow any one to enter into your room except your close friends and relatives who understand about your needs and shall be part of your preparation process. Book a beauty parlor well in advance because marriage season makes them over busy and hard to find a good beautician available. 

• You should select a hair style in advance with the help of a professional hairstylist to give you best suggestions and accessories related to your hair style for the big day because every hair style does not go well with every face. You must see to it that the particular hair do would look graceful and match your face properly. Your friends may help you find a good hairstylist and their role in this matter should be limited to this only.  

• You should be careful and prepare beforehand especially if you think that you are not photogenic or camera shy. You should try a few photo sessions with the help of friends to know about your weak and strong points. You should study your portfolio carefully and tell about your strong points and angles most suitable to your wedding photographer to be well prepared for the big day, 

• You should not over stress yourself if you are a bit on heavier side because over exercising just before marriage may prove harmful for your health so avoid but keep yourself busy with light, regular workouts and proper balanced diet with lot of water. You should always remain happy without feeling any tension that should help your cause. 

Prepare your personal list of carefully

You should be careful while you are preparing the list of your friends to invite for your marriage. You should also be most careful to omit the names with stressed relations or your male friends with intimate relations as these could prove problematic at times. Such people behave dramatic especially to their old intimate friend in bridal dress. However if you think that he is a past chapter for your relations, you can safely forget to invite such friends.

Learn a few dance steps

Most girls know to dance these days but if you are one of the rare few who do not know to dance there is no need to join dance classes or go for unnecessary weight reduction programs. You can easily learn few steps of popular dances with the help of your friends and family members. However, it is advisable to go for simple steps so that you do not get confused when the actual time to perform comes. You do not have to go for hectic dance actions because that may disturb your hairdo or your balance on high heels.

First night or nightmare

Girls probably think most about this unnecessary topic especially the girls who are over or under weight fearing about would be partner’s reactions about their body structure. Most girls fear that their life partner may find them not up to their choice and that gives them moony nights before their first night. My suggestion to such girls is to have faith and learn to love them. Once you have enough confidence in yourself, such questions or fears would disappear instantly. You should have love for your own self and must know that marriage is not all about physical relations but a lifelong relation between two persons therefore you should self respect yourself, that will give you confidence to situation without any undue tension.  

Finally

It is natural for any girl to be nervous before marriage for different reasons but you should understand this that a girl has to go all this since she is the one who has to leave her parents and go to a place so far unknown to her where she would be part of a new family. A girl should have confidence that she can win her new relations with balanced behavior. Looks, clothes, your past relations and other small problems may bug you for a few days but trust me if you face all this with a positive frame of mind, you are going to win the situation in any case. I wish you a very happy and successful married life.