How a newborn baby brings happiness into our family

When you are going to become parents, a lot of changes take place in our life’s and the family members in the house will be so happy. Before becoming a father or mother, you may be having the freedom about your recognition. But now, first you are a father or mother then only anything. When your baby hold your hand at first time then you may feel so happy and you may feel that there is no other happiness than your baby. There are many examples to say that your baby fills your life with happiness. Looking after children is a bit hard. But it’s a wonderful feeling in the world. So let us know how a baby brings happiness in your life.

Mother:

By seeing the born baby which has in the mother’s womb for 9 months, mother feels much happier. She feels it is god’s grace. She gives first priority to her born baby, then any one of the family and her needs. The Mother feels happier when she is looking after her baby and no other things can give her that much happiness. When your baby in your hands, then your happiness will be indescribable.

Father:

Actually fathers, love their children from earlier that is before the baby born. But later when they become fathers and when their baby in their hands then they feel that their world has changed completely. He will take good decisions for the sake of his baby and baby’s future. He becomes a responsible father and person. When the baby smiles, the parents feel very happy and their mind roam around the new born baby. The things which father didn’t do till that time, but now he takes it as a challenge and does the things for the sake of his child.

Family and relatives

The family and other members welcome the new member who is going to join the family. The birth of a baby gives happiness to every member in the family. Every member of the family will have a new relation.

How to impress your parents

Every child wants to be a good child for parents. So children do a lot of hard work. Especially if they have siblings, they try to get more praising from parents that they are better than siblings. When your parents praise you then your life will become happier. Then there will be a lot of benefits for you, they give permission to go out attend parties, meet friends and have food outside. So few tips to impress your parents.

Innocence

You need to behave as a good child. At least keep an innocent face in front of them. Try to be as if you didn’t get the thoughts according to your age. Then parents feel that the world cannot do anything to their child. They even feel you are better than other children.

help

You may not be much more useful to your parents. But the things which you can do for your parents, you do. For example give a tie or a shirt to your father while he is getting ready for going to the office. Helping your mother while serving food or in cooking. So In this manner you can impress your parents.

Discipline 

Every mother and father want their child to be best among other children. So to become best child discipline is important. In this age most of the children are against discipline. They don’t like the restrictions kept by the parents.

Studies

Study well. Then your parents will praise you and they will feel happy. Try to show interest in music, games or the things which your parents are interested. Due to these your parents will feel that their child is best in everything. Then you and your life will have freedom, peace and happiness.

Praise / complement:

Though the person may be at any age but it is good to praise them. Praising others is a human weakness. You can praise your mother’s food, saying wow what a tasty food she prepared, you can praise your father by saying you are always cool mind and you never become anger. So follow these and make your parents feel  better about you.

Things which should not be spoken with the teenage children

It is very difficult to look after children for parents. It is even difficult for the children to grow up in such a way that parents feel proud of them. Sometimes parents speak harshly with their children. So you should think before you speak as your words show an effect on your own child’s mind. So you need to observe it.

Now let us know which things should not be spoken

I am very responsible when am in your age

Never say these words to your child. By comparing your child with your childhood is a big mistake of yours as this will decrease confidence in your child.

You always take wrong decisions

Don’t ever use these words to your child as your child is still learning stage. If your child does the things which you do not like, don’t say it’s a wrong decision or mistake as parents; you need to show in the right way to your child. But never force your child to do the things which your child does not like or not interested.

 Learn from your brother or sister

Don’t ever compare your child with their brother or sister. Because this creates a hatred feeling between the children. 

I want to be alone

Never say these words when you are talking with your child because they will feel that you are neglecting them or you won’t like them and this finally leads to depression.

You should be ashamed of your self

These are very hurting words. To whomever child you say these words they will feel bad. So you need to make your child know about good or bad in a good and easy manner so that the child should not feel bad.

You are like your mother or father

This shows your hatred which you have on your life partner and it will know by your child. Then your child loses respect towards you. So never use such words with your child

You always hurt me

Children do things without their knowledge. But when you say these words then they will feel that they have taken wrong decision. Then they will do things by following your words but somewhere in their mind they feel that they have hurt you.

Instead of having child like you, it is better to be without child

Though your child committed mistakes but you should not speak these words as these shows a lot of effect on your child.

Try to leave bad friendship

You may not think before making friendship. Same with your child also. The difference between you and your child is, you judge your friend then you decide whether to maintain distance or not but the children cannot do it.  Friends are their world. So we cannot order them to have new friends.

How to become a good stepmother or stepfather

Now a day’s marriage and divorce have become normal problems. Most of the people think about how to become a good stepmother or stepfather. How to settle our new family and especially with children. So let us know a few things about how to be a good step mother or father. Problems which come to step mother / father.

People feel that the stepmother or father may not properly love children and look after them.

There will be no peace at home

The peace and comforts which children have may go away, when new father or mother have forcefully entered their house and life. 

Children cannot give new mother or father in their earlier mother or father’s place in their heart. So in such situations you should try be a good mother or father but not a friend as children need father or mother as they feel this loss. Try to be a good mother or father and take care that the child should not remember earlier mother or father.

Conversation

Children who are feeling the loss of mother or father, so be a good step mother and solve all the problems which are in the children’s mind. Therefore, children will feel that you are good mother or father and they become close to you. After a few days they start loving you. In earlier people used to say that the stepmother makes the children’s life hell. It is not difficult to be a stepmother and stepfather. 

If necessary follow these tips and be a good stepmother or father.