A girl of 21 years who is out of her house leaving parents and siblings for the first time in the name of marriage, how she feels?

It's really a difficult/ embarrassing  situation for a girl who has to completely start a new life with her person whom she never come across.

She has many queries in her mind " How he behaves with me? Will he love me? Do he like me? Is he marrying me for the sake of his parents?

What does he know about me? " . How come the parents keep their lovable daughter's hand in the hands of the person whom she has come to

know for the first time in her life ?

She was brought up by her parents as a pamper child and a sweet sister of her siblings , she steps out of her home to a world where the people around were new.

She is the last one to get up from bed in the morning at her parental home, but is the first one at in-law's.She gives nick names to the food prepared by mom and

mom accepts them happily, but the case is reverse in in-law's. She has to accept comments for her food preparations . When she is ill, each and every member of

the family feels as if they are not feeling well, but in in-law's no one cares about. If she was unable to give a good amount in the name of dowry at the time of

marriage, then the girl is tortured by her in-law's like a hungry tiger on deer. When will this hunger of Dowry stops? Is there any end for this? Does the girl of

every family have to face this situation? When will this attempts of murder on girl stops? When will the harassment  on girl stops?

Why only this situation arises for a girl? Is she not independent? Is she not educated? She too is well graduated . She too can stand on her feet. Then why she have to

stay with her soul mate suppressing all his tortures? What do u say....Do she? No..........................

Recently i have come across a case , where the girl faced same problems? So i thought of writing that as an article.