In equilibrium bringing a dating relationship and the rest of your life, including work, the friends and family difficult. Especially when you're just in a dating relationship begins. You do not want to move too quickly, but you do not want to go slow. Dating women (or men) is not easy, but it should not be too hard. Find only the balance between making it a part of your life and still manage your life.

Just like a balanced diet can be difficult to find and maintain balance may dating women and the rest of your life difficult. Make it a little easier by:

* Positioning limits: Decide if you time spend together. Maybe during the week you just can not do it, but you can spend a whole weekend with her. When you first start women, or at least one new woman to date, this would be a reasonable balance. Or maybe you are free after a certain time in the evening during the week. For awhile, is separate from the time point. It allows you to get to know each other without feeling overwhelmed.

* Wait for her to introduce to your family. This is particularly important because when women dating, because for a woman, the family comes together is a big deal. If you ever "Sex and the City have seen," the episode where you could have seen Carrie Great tracks to church to meet his mother. It was not so good. Avoid going to her desperate measures. Both also avoided doing scare her away. In another episode, when Carrie dating Aden, he will introduce her to his family, but she thinks it is too soon. Ask her if she was ready, and whether it is important to you, let her know.

* Turn off the cell. Seriously. Or at least, separate the time with your girl of your time at work by her question not needed while you work. The "diary of Bridget Jones' gives a perfect reason, if Bridget calling her friend, to sign him on their last night to speak and he is on a conference call. When dating women, make sure they understand your need to keep separate. Vice versa, if you're with her, do not question the work. The project can wait until tomorrow. It is important that they know your time is important to her, and you'll get no demand and the date that you cancel it has been waiting for.

* Discuss goals. When dating women, they often want to see the big picture, sometimes before you're ready. Discuss your goals, whether you want to be married, have kids and what is your dream job - and if you have a time scale, share it. This will help you on the same page, but it will let her know where they keep falling in your life.

* Discuss the work, money and family. This would be something that your reserve if you're serious, but they are important issues. When dating women, it is wise to have a general idea of what you want done. Because they will want to know, too. And it gives both of you time to leave if you want different things.

Especially when the ratio of the ground only, can find a balance between dating women and the rest of your life are incredibly frustrating. You're glad you're not any, but maybe you have a little space. Do not be afraid to take it. It will be good for both of you.