Marriage is the necessarily of both man and woman. Quarrels/disagreements are bit common in marriages as both man and woman have different mental levels and they both come from different back grounds but sometimes these disagreements become so big that it results in to breakups.
Till 20th century the cases of divorces were less as people used to live in joint family and lifetime single marriage was quiet prevalent and woman used to depend more on man for their financial needs but now a days woman being more ambitious and have become independent financially. Many of the woman even are sitting on the top positions in an organization.
Let us consider few reasons why couples break up:
1. Independency: These days woman are equally educated and qualified compared to man so its not always possible for them to sit in house and handle only the household activities. They also want to be independent like men and want to utilize their qualification. Men who understand it allow their wife to go for a job even sometimes the need of money too also make men to allow them to go for a job. But in most of the cases they are not allowed because of narrow mindedness of men. In that case the problem becomes BIG and leads to breakup. In fact this is the common reason of break up and quarrels in a couple.
2. Getting attracted to another person: This is also the common reason of break up. It happens when person do have start liking someone else after the marriage or can’t be able to forget the one whom he/she loved before marriage. I have many people getting separated due to this reason.
3. Physical incapability: Sometimes physical incapability also is the reason for divorcés. I have seen many of ladies being divorced for the reason that they cannot become a mother in future also if someone has become handicapped in an accident. Incapability also includes sexual life. Some people don’t find an interest in sex which may result in frustration in the partner.
4. Difference in opinions: People always have difference in opinion but sometime the difference is so much which may lead to person conflicts and may even result in to the separation of the couple.
5. Comparison: Comparing partner with someone else, continuous nagging also are the reasons of break up. People often compare their wife/husband with someone which sometime may effect badly in relationship.
6. Addiction of alcohol/drugs: Addiction of alcohol is the major cause of domestic violence and in most of the case cause break up. There are wives who don’t raise their voice for it and tolerate physical abuse of their husband and make their life a hell.
7. Showing disrespect to partner, partner’s relative also sometime may become the reason of separation.
8. Financial crisis: Sometimes it happens that there is financial crisis as there is no job or work with any one from the couple and ultimately they think of break up for it.
These are the possible reasons for break up in a couple. But one must think twice before reaching on the decision of divorce as the life of kids become difficult after divorce. It happens in the life that people take divorce from their partner and then repent for it afterwards. We should try to resolve issues before going for a divorcé. In marriages compromise is the main thing one should understand that we need to compromise for many things. Sometimes we have to the things which may not like but for the sake of our partner we have to do it. Trust and respect is another important thing which we must do for our partner to make relationship much stronger. Hope we understand the feelings of our partner there won’t be any argument or quarrel in couples. And if small issues happen too then its part of life and everyone has it.