our mind controls our body... whatever we think, howsoever we act in our day to day life is a consequence of our experiences in the past... our past surely affects us in our near or far future...even as a kid, we grasp what's going all around us? and our sensitive brain at dat tender age stores the information in the form of signals and utilises it somehow in our future....
when a child is suppressed, and deprived of his childhood, a fear of dominance might be embedded in the roots of his brains.. the child may act rebellious over certain issues in the future, the reasson of which even he might not recall... his repusive attitude towards stuffs to which he might not agree to, is the result of his dominant and deteroited upbringing which had ultimately led to his degraded future aspects.
there can be various reasons of such upbringings..
1. poor and pathetic financial conditions of their parents.
2. family with narrow mentality and boundaried happiness around.
3. differences between the parents.
4. other discerpances like no rights given to a female child in the house.
5. communication gap between the parents and the children.
such problems cannot be easily rectified.
we think that a child never encounters harsh situations in his childhood days, but no-one is able to understand the unspoken words of a child.. he himself finds himself caught in the web of his past.. he silently deals with the negative vibes around him because he is too innocent and too immature to grasp what's cooking around...
he might not accept or realise what he went through in his childhood days but when he matures up, he stars finding the reasons of his personality and behaviour towards others... at this point of time his brain releases those stored signals in the form of impulses and then the picture is all clear in a mature head..
he can nw make out why?????
1. he cannot breathe wheen someone tries to dominate him?
2. he feels reckless when some1 is fighting?
3. he faints when some1 close to him is in any trouble?
everything is clear.. but the saddest part is- he cannot help it..