Hi friends,
I just visited a wonderful Christian wedding yesterday of my schooltime friend and asked my friend's mother and father that how they organized everything so that I would able to share my trips with all you people over here. So here is what I gathered from them in my own words.
Enjoy this beautiful and intense moment: given free rein to your imagination and try to realize your dreams without giving up as much as possible to enjoy yourself. Our advice to plan the wedding and the wedding feast will be useful.
6-12 months prior to Define the type of party, date and place. Make a schedule of holding the festival (the civil status office, church, refreshments, lunch). Book the church. Contact the ufficiante for marriage in church. Book rooms for refreshments and celebration. Select the destination for honeymoon. Book holidays to work and booked the trip.
6-3 months prior to get in touch with the office of civil status. Order documents for the civil ceremony. Choose the witnesses. Draw up a list of the guests. Reviewed the bids for the restaurant / catering, transportation of guests, the florist and musicians to make your choice. Possibly subscribe to a dance course. Send invitations. Make the wish list and send. Search for wedding rings. Looking for clothes for the bride and the bridegroom. If necessary, make any required vaccinations and visas for their honeymoon.
2 months before the book hotel rooms for guests that come from outside. Contact guests who have not yet responded. Engaged the photographer / service of shooting video (compare different offers). Attach the appointment by the hairdresser. Arrange so that someone will take care of your pets while you're on honeymoon. Felt the post of your absence.
1 month prior to check and confirm the entire organization on the feast. Studied the allocation of seats at the table. Prepare the decorations, the cards with the names, etc.. Try clothes for the ceremony and have them adjust if necessary. Do rewrite documents / bills of insurance with your new name / marital status. In case of transfer, communicated to the mail change of address.
Try 2 weeks before the wedding rings . Communicated to the restaurant / catering service, the exact number of guests.
1 week before Make a list of all the guests and gifts. Make a final briefing of the people involved / the music chosen for the church and the feast. Organized withdrawal of the items hired. Make your luggage / prepared the money, tickets and visas for the honeymoon.
The day before Prepare a bag for the bride. Make jewelry, makeup and accessories. Try to relax and remain calm (which may use the Bach flower or homeopathic tablets to calm the nerves). Get a small gift to each other.