Introduction

The requirement of a working woman is felt not only at home but in office also. Usually a working woman has responsibilities towards both home and office. She requires the support and help of her family and husband too. But in some cases the husbands and family members of such working women try to make them guilty over not doing this or that. When this happens the working woman feels that marriage is working against her career. It is often seen that no matter how much a working woman tries to do well at both office and home, somebody ends up complaining at home about things not being done properly. Even if one is not a working woman the work at home is never ending. To do well at both home and office requires good co-ordination and adjustment. Many marriage experts state that career and family is both important for a working woman. It is often seen that many woman are unsucessful at handling home and office together. They want to excel both in home and office but this does not happen.

Women have to change  their thought

Many women these days have started giving priority to office. Women should realize that married and family life is as important as career. If many women who prefer spending long hours at office realize that family is important, they will start trying to coordinate and adjust between both home and office. This is the first step. When this realization takes place the 'stress' and 'tension' of household work and family will no longer feel like stress and tension and will be more manageable. If you are a married working woman and not happy with your condition you should have thought about the demands that marriage can put before you got married. If you really love your kids getting then getting them ready for school in the morning before you go for work will not seem like a 'chore' for you. If you really love your husband then making breakfast for him  before you go to work will not seem like extra work for you. If you value your family and home, the work you do for your family and home will not seem a burden and you will be able to handle both office and married life without much problems.

Set your priorities

Try to understand the requirement's of your family and set your priorities. Never openly blame your husband, in laws and kids for the tension you get in the office or the lack of progress in your career. Supposings that you excel in your career and become the top most manager of your company what is the use if you come home and there is no family to share your happiness with? career and family are actually the two sides of the same coin. How well you are able to adjust and co-ordinate them both is up to you. You should bear in mind that family and married life deserves priority over career. One can survive if one is not in the top position in one's career but one cannot survive without the support and love of a family. When family members understand and feel the love that a working woman is giving to them without the woman being irritated or frustrated in any manner, they themselves will start supporting the career and office life of the working woman.