does MOM tears matters for her son,

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Thursday, 30 September 2010 18:49

In our materialistic culture today her tears no longer move her wards as these used to!

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Thursday, 30 September 2010 19:23

I dont know whether that is possible or not as most of the relations in the present world are becoming fake...

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Thursday, 30 September 2010 22:20

Motherhood is very sacred... The real mother and child relation is from heart to heart. :)

And always a true son cares for Mother... :)
No need to shed tears.. :)

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Friday, 01 October 2010 00:17

@Deepti

What you have said is true but in our fast changing world old values are constantly being challenged and new equations are being formed.I have personally seen the tears of a mother whose only son is well settled abroad and who is too busy with his career and his family to make even a phone call to her in a month!

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Friday, 01 October 2010 00:38

That is true Chinmoy...It is very difficult to state the behaviour of child in present days as in childhood they may be caring but once they settle in life..the things are different...

I too seen and feel the painful tears of a old mother...who is negelected by hers children.. :(

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Friday, 01 October 2010 01:09

In the materialistic world of today, tears have no values whatsoever, be it a mother's tears or a father's!!

Children are only concerned about their own careers and wellbeing! But more often than not, daughters are seen taking care of their parents rather than the son's!!

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Friday, 01 October 2010 08:58

Well... Thats right Chinmoy, Kalyani and Rajani...

:( :( :(

Actual relationship is not found in this mechanical life...

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Friday, 01 October 2010 09:57

If Children see their grandparents being treated so good by their parents, those good thoughts will stay with them forever. :) :)

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Friday, 01 October 2010 10:00

I could not control my tears when i step in to old age homes.
I usually spend time with people there in old age homes during some occasions like birthdays.

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Friday, 01 October 2010 11:18

That is very sweet and considerate of you Nagalakshmi!! :) :) I used to do that a couple of years ago, but now responsibilities and duties do not give me any time now!! :(

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Friday, 01 October 2010 12:44

Hmm Yes Nagalakshmi... I think there is "Sr Sathya Sai old age home" near you house...
I do visit another Old age home hear to my home occasionally , at Kondapur Junction(Near Jalsa Hotel).. There are 13 old ladies and 1 old man....

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Friday, 01 October 2010 12:49

That is very nice and sweet of you Deepti!! :) :) :)

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Friday, 01 October 2010 14:45

:) Thats fine Kalyni....

I was from family where in we give much esteem and respect to elders and women... Haven't seen my mom crying for my brothers till now ... :)
I just saw her doing so when my grand pa expired... :(

So this topic is very different to me.. :(

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Friday, 01 October 2010 14:50

Thanks Kalyani and Deepti.As I am new to hyderabad I visit old age homes in my native.It is really good to have lunch with them at least once a year.

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Friday, 01 October 2010 14:55

When we listen to the stories of the people staying in old age homes I really wonder whether the children can be so cruel to their parents.

But all the people there stay so happily.They mix up so well that they don't differentiate themselves with caste, creed or color.

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Friday, 01 October 2010 15:05

Hmmm yes Nagalakshmi.... :( They again turn out to be a family sharing their happiness and sadness together... :(

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Friday, 01 October 2010 15:17

It is my belief that only if our parents are happy we will be happy for the rest of our life.No love is equivalent to Parent's love and care. :) :) :)

When we were young they sacrificed everything for us. Now it is our turn to take care of them. :)

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Friday, 01 October 2010 15:28

Tears definitely matter. sons are sensitive to mother's sentiments. But shedding tears as a routine may diminish the affect.

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Friday, 01 October 2010 15:38

"Tears"- A thing which can express both happiness and sadness. :) :)

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Saturday, 02 October 2010 19:04

Thats true Nagalakshmi... :)

Tears are very powerful too... I donot shed tears... I remember shedding tears just twice...

Once when my Grandfather expired... With sadness...
The other when my son was born.... With happiness...

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