Is woman a commodity that can be staked in gamble. Yes. Yudhistra, Dharam Raj (embodiment of virtue) staked Drupadi- his and his brothers' common wife, and lost he in gamble.
Still there are Yudhishtra and Drupadi. There is a shocking news from Kanpur, where a gamble lost his wife in gamble.

...However what is wrong is wrong for both men and women ..