Controlling attitude towards a partner.

For a better relation between the two, each partner should respect the feelings of the other. Putting pressure on the other for doing something will bring problems in your relation.

This depends on personality of partners. Some are dominant, others submissive and still others equals. There is a sort of role play in marital relation. Most significant is mutual satisfaction.   

A happy married life with differences lead to conflicts that wreck the family. Couples should not be judgmental about each others attitudes and aptitudes. If one loves a particular way, let the other make way. Of course, not at the cost of family welfare.

Some people are always conscious about their health and beauty. They take all necessary steps to keep their body fit and beautiful. Some of them wish to see their partners also in the same condition. Therefore, they bring some restrictions to their partners personal matters. Behave according to the character of your partners.  If your husband/wife doesn't like such interference, do not try to control them. Let them do what they like. People want freedom. Let them give.

Trespassing in to each others lives is the biggest factor that leads to wrecked families. Respect and trust each other is the only  panacea for a Happy married life. 

Partners should be respect wises of each others. Any type of undue pressure is not good for happy marriage life. If one have problem with partner other must be understand that is it real or not. If problem is genuiune than partners must be help in solving it. It is best one attitude that took problem of partner as you own problem.