This is upsetting when you like a person you lose him/her. I have colleague cum friend. Basically he is a subordinate and learned everything from me at work and we have a good bonding in last 2 years and have been friends more then a boss or subordinate relation. Everything was moving fine till today when top management asked him to go to Thailand as they need a person there. He agreed as he is in need of money and he will get better salary there but I have a mixed feeling as I am happy that he will grow better and it's indirectly me who's appreciated by the management as he learned everything from me but one bitter fact is I am hurt as I have lost one of my best friend. I don't know how I may be able to fill that void which he will leave when he will go away from my life as I know once a person go far the relationship also gets affected.
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Just think about it, while playing with any operating system be it mobile or windows computer, we tend to change theme or wall paper from time to time in order to have some refreshing look, and change of perspectives, life is similar, it is one such operating system where we tend to change the thought processes just the similar like that of themes of operating system.
Oneshould know that all of us get affected by UPs and DOWNs of life. Be it a prince or a pauper.Wisdom lies in choosing a proper course to deal with the situation. And this choosing of an appropriate course is entirely your responsibility. A river will not stop when it is hindered by a mountain. Instead, it changes it's course and continues its onward journey towards sea. That's life.
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Sanjeev Gupta
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