Love Jehad- real fears of saffron brigade

Howsoever the saffron brigade or any other brigade of any religion for that matter may try, they cannot stop the society from the changes it is going through. With such lovejihad and other similar attempts they may be able to delay the change but will not be able to stop it. After centuries in today's India increasing number of individuals can lead the type of life they want and not what their parents or the society elders want. It is a churning process but in the end will help India and Indians lead a dignified life of mutual respect and joy and not hypocritical lives.

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

Muslims accept Hindu girls but Hindus will not accept Muslim. Rather they do't accept even relation with lower caste. There is also Ghotra restriction. Arraned marriage is the norm.

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

Muslims accept Hindu girls but Hindus will not accept Muslim. Rather they do't accept even relation with lower caste. There is also Ghotra restriction. Arraned marriage is the norm.

With so many exceptions they are ready to accept Muslim boys? I am confused but I will have to agree since you're saying so

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

Muslims accept Hindu girls but Hindus will not accept Muslim. Rather they do't accept even relation with lower caste. There is also Ghotra restriction. Arraned marriage is the norm.

With so many exceptions they are ready to accept Muslim boys? I am confused but I will have to agree since you're saying so

I don't think that Hindu families would accept Muslim boys. But it is the girls who accept Muslim boys- may be voluntarly or under deception of love jehad. Moreover, the Hindu girls go to Muslim families and their parents may cut off relation with them. But in case of Muslim girls, it is a more difficult issue. Here the girl will come to Hindu family. Most families won't accept. But in any case, it is possibe for a Muslim boy/ girl to live with Hindu girl/ boy sepearte from joint family. Actually this is the scenerio that implies that famil values are eroded and replaced by individualism. The theme of the thread and link is exactly this. The RSS and and allied organizatins are unhappy with indiviualism that demolishes family values/ ties.

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

Muslims accept Hindu girls but Hindus will not accept Muslim. Rather they do't accept even relation with lower caste. There is also Ghotra restriction. Arraned marriage is the norm.

With so many exceptions they are ready to accept Muslim boys? I am confused but I will have to agree since you're saying so

I don't think that Hindu families would accept Muslim boys. But it is the girls who accept Muslim boys- may be voluntarly or under deception of love jehad. Moreover, the Hindu girls go to Muslim families and their parents may cut off relation with them. But in case of Muslim girls, it is a more difficult issue. Here the girl will come to Hindu family. Most families won't accept. But in any case, it is possibe for a Muslim boy/ girl to live with Hindu girl/ boy sepearte from joint family. Actually this is the scenerio that implies that famil values are eroded and replaced by individualism. The theme of the thread and link is exactly this. The RSS and and allied organizatins are unhappy with indiviualism that demolishes family values/ ties.

The girls accept them because they introduce themselves with false identity. And that is the game behind Love Jihad. I have no objection if girls marry them with their real identity.

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

Muslims accept Hindu girls but Hindus will not accept Muslim. Rather they do't accept even relation with lower caste. There is also Ghotra restriction. Arraned marriage is the norm.

With so many exceptions they are ready to accept Muslim boys? I am confused but I will have to agree since you're saying so

I don't think that Hindu families would accept Muslim boys. But it is the girls who accept Muslim boys- may be voluntarly or under deception of love jehad. Moreover, the Hindu girls go to Muslim families and their parents may cut off relation with them. But in case of Muslim girls, it is a more difficult issue. Here the girl will come to Hindu family. Most families won't accept. But in any case, it is possibe for a Muslim boy/ girl to live with Hindu girl/ boy sepearte from joint family. Actually this is the scenerio that implies that famil values are eroded and replaced by individualism. The theme of the thread and link is exactly this. The RSS and and allied organizatins are unhappy with indiviualism that demolishes family values/ ties.

The girls accept them because they introduce themselves with false identity. And that is the game behind Love Jihad. I have no objection if girls marry them with their real identity.

Yes. False identity is fraud. But even consensual inter religion marriage is not so desirable though that is not unlawful. In India, marriage does not establish relation between a man and woman. This also ties two families. It may not be very easy to adjust in different religious community. Arranged marriage is never between two different religious communities. But love knows no restrictions- family or social.

:( :( It is not just a matter of Hindu Muslim. The aother cause of worry to saffron brigade is weakening of family values and rise of individualism. Love Jead implies that the girls and boy tae thir own way and famiy is weaened.


http://www.firstpost.com/india/its-not-just-about-muslims-here-is-the-real-reason-for-the-rss-fear-of-hindu-muslim-romance-1766865.html

Is it available both ways or only one sect will benefit or expert in love affairs? Is the other party prepared to accept the matter other way round too?

Muslims accept Hindu girls but Hindus will not accept Muslim. Rather they do't accept even relation with lower caste. There is also Ghotra restriction. Arraned marriage is the norm.

With so many exceptions they are ready to accept Muslim boys? I am confused but I will have to agree since you're saying so

I don't think that Hindu families would accept Muslim boys. But it is the girls who accept Muslim boys- may be voluntarly or under deception of love jehad. Moreover, the Hindu girls go to Muslim families and their parents may cut off relation with them. But in case of Muslim girls, it is a more difficult issue. Here the girl will come to Hindu family. Most families won't accept. But in any case, it is possibe for a Muslim boy/ girl to live with Hindu girl/ boy sepearte from joint family. Actually this is the scenerio that implies that famil values are eroded and replaced by individualism. The theme of the thread and link is exactly this. The RSS and and allied organizatins are unhappy with indiviualism that demolishes family values/ ties.

The girls accept them because they introduce themselves with false identity. And that is the game behind Love Jihad. I have no objection if girls marry them with their real identity.

Yes. False identity is fraud. But even consensual inter religion marriage is not so desirable though that is not unlawful. In India, marriage does not establish relation between a man and woman. This also ties two families. It may not be very easy to adjust in different religious community. Arranged marriage is never between two different religious communities. But love knows no restrictions- family or social.

I agree with everything you said, my only objection is false identity. That creates suspicions and makes them unwanted.