Love is a myth or reality ?

It's lust in teens , In mid years a deal and in old age a need , I strongly feel love doesn't exist , It only exists between mother and a child , father and a child or vice versa But between man and a woman its only a belief .

I think your definition of Love is not right. I view love as pure and eternal.it exists where trust is there. Love means never having to say you are sorry.

Well, i don't wish to define love or whether love is a reality or a myth..but i feel there is some amount of emotion involved in every relationship which is termed as love or else humanity and human race wouldn't exist.

Well, i don't wish to define love or whether love is a reality or a myth..but i feel there is some amount of emotion involved in every relationship which is termed as love or else humanity and human race wouldn't exist.

So you say, there exists some amount of emotion in every relationship.it means that emotion's name varies from type of relation.if its between man and woman, it's love. It implies love is not a myth.

:) may be yes..love is not a myth...if a person is lucky and blessed they get it the rest who don't get, consider it as myth.

If a fox fails to get grapes, can we say grapes are myth?. We say it's due to lack of sincerity. Lack of efforts. Akin to this, if a person says Love is myth, it definitely is due to lack of sincerity.

NOM but I just laughed out loud reading the fox and the grapes analogy. Certainly sincerity cannot get anyone love..luck can!

I believe love between a man and woman is temporary...it is more of attraction..for example a marriage which was initiated by love...where later couples grow apart..marriage still continues..not because of love..but due to responsibilities towards each other and towards their children.

NOM but I just laughed out loud reading the fox and the grapes analogy. Certainly sincerity cannot get anyone love..luck can!

I believe love between a man and woman is temporary...it is more of attraction..for example a marriage which was initiated by love...where later couples grow apart..marriage still continues..not because of love..but due to responsibilities towards each other and towards their children.

Good you expressed your opinion. But, I beg to differ with you. In my view, there is no such thing as Luck.. It's effort that pays you at the end of the day. Love can be made permanent and make it last unto the last with understanding and trust. Of course a few sacrifices from both sides.
It's my personal opinion.

It's lust in teens , In mid years a deal and in old age a need , I strongly feel love doesn't exist , It only exists between mother and a child , father and a child or vice versa But between man and a woman its only a belief .

Change is the only permanent thing in life and love to undergoes a change, it matures and takes different forms as relationship grows and matures.You meet and get attracted and marry and take on responsibilities but love does not vanish , it transforms into friendship, mutual respect and other emotions as well...If a couple grow apart instead of growing together then it has to be with their own failure to choose or adjust or communicate with the right partner...

Nothing is permanent ..not even love..i mean the kind of love we are talking about. Also, I believe luck does play a part not only in love, but in every sphere of life.

It's lust in teens , In mid years a deal and in old age a need , I strongly feel love doesn't exist , It only exists between mother and a child , father and a child or vice versa But between man and a woman its only a belief .

Change is the only permanent thing in life and love to undergoes a change, it matures and takes different forms as relationship grows and matures.You meet and get attracted and marry and take on responsibilities but love does not vanish , it transforms into friendship, mutual respect and other emotions as well...If a couple grow apart instead of growing together then it has to be with their own failure to choose or adjust or communicate with the right partner...[/quote

True. If a couple go apart, it's their own undoing. It signifies lack of understanding and trust between them. It's a failure to direct their endeavors to patch up. This failure is attributed to "Luck ". There is no place for luck in any sphere of life including Marital life.

Human is reality and continuance of human civilisation is reality and the love is myth, as it catalysts life in various forms.

It's lust in teens , In mid years a deal and in old age a need , I strongly feel love doesn't exist , It only exists between mother and a child , father and a child or vice versa But between man and a woman its only a belief .

Change is the only permanent thing in life and love to undergoes a change, it matures and takes different forms as relationship grows and matures.You meet and get attracted and marry and take on responsibilities but love does not vanish , it transforms into friendship, mutual respect and other emotions as well...If a couple grow apart instead of growing together then it has to be with their own failure to choose or adjust or communicate with the right partner...

True. If a couple go apart, it's their own undoing. It signifies lack of understanding and trust between them. It's a failure to direct their endeavors to patch up. This failure is attributed to "Luck ". There is no place for luck in any sphere of life including Marital life.

I agree , what we call luck is a series of co incidences that are sometimes beyond us because many factors are involved...like for instance one of my relatives was supposed to take the ill fated Dubai flight that crashed in Mangalore a few years ago where all passengers were killed. She cancelled her flight at the last minute because she developed a viral infection and her doctor said it was contagious .. Similarly, in a marriage sometimes outside forces too can play both negative and positive role but it depends entirely on the couple as to how they handle these !

Nothing is permanent ..not even love..i mean the kind of love we are talking about. Also, I believe luck does play a part not only in love, but in every sphere of life.

I agree. Nothing is permanent. Not even love. Life itself is not permanent. Love also may fade over time. In fact, too much closeness diminishes love. But some spells of seperation revive the spark of love.

Yes, i believed that being too much clued into each other's (man-woman relationship) lives can bring the duo even closer but I was wrong...it actually feels strangulating to some. Some amount of breathing space is good in every relationship.

Yes, i believed that being too much clued into each other's (man-woman relationship) lives can bring the duo even closer but I was wrong...it actually feels strangulating to some. Some amount of breathing space is good in every relationship.

The limits and boundaries of moments that cause inconvience are to explored and come to an understanding to avoid them. It's the duty of the couple.

@Rambabu: Agree with you that couples need to express their limitation, set boundaries and share their likes and dislikes which takes time. Overtime we all come to realize how should we behave with each other.

There is always a solution to every problem. People lose patience and jump to hasty conclusions. Who's the loser?

In couple's relation, love is not always deciding factor. Love is a good cementing factor. But love may diminish. The marital relation is more of a social obligation than mere love.

In couple's relation, love is not always deciding factor. Love is a good cementing factor. But love may diminish. The marital relation is more of a social obligation than mere love.

Its a social obligation with a purpose. The purpose is to see the dynasty goes on. To maintain the lineage.

Yes, marriage is a legal and social obligation but at the same time anything which is obligatory and not out of genuine concern or love becomes strangulating