How do you react if someone criticzes you?

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How do you respond if somebody criticizes you? do you smile and avoid the situation or do you shout back? do you examine the criticizer to see whether at least a part of what he has said about you may be true or do you try to prove him as a madman in front of others?

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There are criticisms of all kinds -positive, negative, cynical, jealous so on and so forth. It is always sensible to welcome the positive ones!!
If he is speaking the truth, I learn from him and then avoid him. Otherwise, I teach him a lesson. This is obvious.
How do you respond if somebody criticizes you? do you smile and avoid the situation or do you shout back? do you examine the criticizer to see whether at least a part of what he has said about you may be true or do you try to prove him as a madman in front of others?

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I'll see the veracity of the criticism. If the critic is right, I will thank him. If he's wrong, i will try to convince him. If he is adamant and refuses to hear me, I will leave the place.
How do you respond if somebody criticizes you? do you smile and avoid the situation or do you shout back? do you examine the criticizer to see whether at least a part of what he has said about you may be true or do you try to prove him as a madman in front of others?

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I will listen to what he speaks of, and would remain silent as I cannot control the other person, it is his mind and mouth to speak whatever, and that will not affect me. For me silent is the best to counter critics.
I shall evaluate his criticism and take corrective action. If the criticism is invalid, I shall just ignore.
How do you respond if somebody criticizes you? do you smile and avoid the situation or do you shout back? do you examine the criticizer to see whether at least a part of what he has said about you may be true or do you try to prove him as a madman in front of others?

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I will listen to what he speaks of, and would remain silent as I cannot control the other person, it is his mind and mouth to speak whatever, and that will not affect me. For me silent is the best to counter critics.


Yes. Silence silences even the worst of the critics. And no punishment is higher than ignoring the critic.
It depends entirely on the person who is criticizing and also the circumstances.One cannot react in the same manner for every criticism.If it has merit I would analyse it but when it is done with an intention to do just that (criticise ) I would ignore it ..
How do you respond if somebody criticizes you? do you smile and avoid the situation or do you shout back? do you examine the criticizer to see whether at least a part of what he has said about you may be true or do you try to prove him as a madman in front of others?

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I smile, bow my head and take it if it is positive.
I smile, look at them if it is not justified
But shouting back is not my idea.
I always keep my profile low.
It depends on who the person is and what his/her intentions are! If the person really means it out of concern for me, then I welcome the criticism, but if they are otherwise, I either ignore it or give them a word or two mine, positively!
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.
Why should other criticizes me. It is possible that there is a fault in myself. I think what is my guilt and try to recover from that. I never shouted on person of other side.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.


Yes.. That's why I mentioned that its also depends on where it is coming from. Friend or relative can criticize you for your well and surely it can be take as advice for our good.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.


Yes.. That's why I mentioned that its also depends on where it is coming from. Friend or relative can criticize you for your well and surely it can be take as advice for our good.


True. If the criticism comes from those who are jealous of you because of your achievements or success, such criticism can be ignored.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.


My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.


My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.


Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?
Everybody should welcome some good ,proper and logical criticize as it may help all to be more perfect.
I take any criticizes on me as a positive point. It will take me to the path from where I try to improve myself.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.


My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.


Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?


No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.
Honestly I may change my reaction as per person. If one of the known person who knows me well will criticize me then I would surely think about it and try to do something about it.


We should understand that if a criticism comes from a real friend, it should be accepted wholeheartedly . The critism that comes from a well wishing friend or a relative is an advice to correct and amend our way of working. It's as precious a priceless jewel. Others can be ignored.


My stand is 'critics are my best friends' but if someone is doing for the sake of criticism only, he should be ready to take his due fee for that.


Yes a biased and purposeless criticism should be rebuffed. Better ignored. Why a person should create headache for himself because of a fool who prattles nonsense ?


No body likes criticism if it is being done to provoke you, but positive criticism from friends is not called criticism but friendly suggestion.


suggestion is a soft criticism. Criticism comes in many many shapes. Even with slight gesture of body organs.

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