The problems that make marriage happy

Nobody likes problems. But there are some problems that bring couple closer and make life happy.

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It could go either way depending on what kind of marriage you have.But I agree in a normal well adjusted marriage any such problem should bring the couple closer ..

Nobody likes problems. But there are some problems that bring couple closer and make life happy.

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I agree.which is why I create a scene for no valid reason at times and patch up only to savour those moments of separation and and a reunion.

Problems creates solutions and that makes marriage happy and it solves most problems, :whistle: :whistle:

problems are there everywhere in life right from the time you are born, even babies have problems of their own and children have growing up pains and teenagers more so and so on....Married couple have problems right from the word go since they have to adjust to each other and then there are outside influences which bring in problems ! It is not at all easy to handle and one has to be patient and understanding otherwise we see many marriages collapsing within a matter of 3-4 years...They call it seven year itch in the west since they felt that if your marriage survived the first seven years , then you are through because you need those initial seven years when you have kids and face other influences and then adjust to everything and finally settle down. However, things can go drastically wrong even after seven years or even longer than that !

The best problem which can bring both the couples together is danger. Any danger which is faced by both the couples equally can bring them together. They will help each other to save from the situation. After all humanity comes first.

The best problem which can bring both the couples together is danger. Any danger which is faced by both the couples equally can bring them together. They will help each other to save from the situation. After all humanity comes first.

Danger or threat to life may bring the couples together. But it's a temporary phase. The moment the danger passes away, both of them go in their own ways. It fails to serve the purpose of bringing the couple together in the real sense.

The best problem which can bring both the couples together is danger. Any danger which is faced by both the couples equally can bring them together. They will help each other to save from the situation. After all humanity comes first.

Danger or threat to life may bring the couples together. But it's a temporary phase. The moment the danger passes away, both of them go in their own ways. It fails to serve the purpose of bringing the couple together in the real sense.

In such a sensitive situation, their elders can do something better for their reunion.

The best problem which can bring both the couples together is danger. Any danger which is faced by both the couples equally can bring them together. They will help each other to save from the situation. After all humanity comes first.

Danger or threat to life may bring the couples together. But it's a temporary phase. The moment the danger passes away, both of them go in their own ways. It fails to serve the purpose of bringing the couple together in the real sense.

In such a sensitive situation, their elders can do something better for their reunion.

NO need of elder intervention. Just following the tips is essential. This helps the couples.

definitely illness of a partner bring them closer. Apart from this sometimes kids also make partners closer as the sense of responsibilty towards them makes them closer to each other. :)

Contrary to what is being discussed here ( personally I feel that problems ought to bring the couple even closer) I know of many cases where problems have been the main cause of breakdown in their relationship and finally leading to seperation and divorce ! One of the cases I know was that of a wife falling sick with ovarian cancer but since it was detected early she was undergoing treatment and probably the pain and the menta stress made her a difficult person to live with ! Once she recovered the couple seperated and although she is getting better each day they have moved completely apart ! I lnow of quite a few such cases which may be due to problems brewing before the tragedy and escalating with sickness !

If the two partners love each other than only the plan to bring them close, can work. Otherwise it is of no use.

If the two partners love each other than only the plan to bring them close, can work. Otherwise it is of no use.

Couples who take their partners as they are and never try to correct are the happiest couples. Such marriages are the most successful and happy marriages.

If the two partners love each other than only the plan to bring them close, can work. Otherwise it is of no use.

Couples who take their partners as they are and never try to correct are the happiest couples. Such marriages are the most successful and happy marriages.

Concern abt. each other and wariness about each other when some one is out for work, that adds additional love that makes marriage happy.

Contrary to what is being discussed here ( personally I feel that problems ought to bring the couple even closer) I know of many cases where problems have been the main cause of breakdown in their relationship and finally leading to seperation and divorce ! One of the cases I know was that of a wife falling sick with ovarian cancer but since it was detected early she was undergoing treatment and probably the pain and the menta stress made her a difficult person to live with ! Once she recovered the couple seperated and although she is getting better each day they have moved completely apart ! I lnow of quite a few such cases which may be due to problems brewing before the tragedy and escalating with sickness !

True. But I have seen few instances, where an ailment of one of the partners brought them more closer than before. And I have witnessed couple getting separated for a flimsy reason. Husband is in the habit of praising another neighboring woman's delicious dishes.

Contrary to what is being discussed here ( personally I feel that problems ought to bring the couple even closer) I know of many cases where problems have been the main cause of breakdown in their relationship and finally leading to seperation and divorce ! One of the cases I know was that of a wife falling sick with ovarian cancer but since it was detected early she was undergoing treatment and probably the pain and the menta stress made her a difficult person to live with ! Once she recovered the couple seperated and although she is getting better each day they have moved completely apart ! I lnow of quite a few such cases which may be due to problems brewing before the tragedy and escalating with sickness !

True. But I have seen few instances, where an ailment of one of the partners brought them more closer than before. And I have witnessed couple getting separated for a flimsy reason. Husband is in the habit of praising another neighboring woman's delicious dishes.

Of course it is always these minor irritants that tend to explode and become serious issues in a marriage...It also shows the shallowness of the relationship if it can break down that easily, also lack of communication between the couple.If they have the sense to discuss any issue that creates stress between them, things would be automatically sorted out instead of brewing and multiplying within !

The most effective reason is the children. It is the child who can bring both husband and wife closer. They compromise and live together forgetting each others faults.

If the two partners love each other than only the plan to bring them close, can work. Otherwise it is of no use.

Couples who take their partners as they are and never try to correct are the happiest couples. Such marriages are the most successful and happy marriages.

Concern abt. each other and wariness about each other when some one is out for work, that adds additional love that makes marriage happy.

Exactly caring and concern about the partner is the basic thing which make the couple closer. Even faith and respect for the feeling of each other is also one of the factor which keeps them close to each other. :blink:

I believe in living together without minding each others shortcomings, at the same time not clashing with each other like well oiled machine, where several parts will be working in their own way but contributing together for the smooth running of the machine.

Problems create closeness and strengthen bonding with each other. :whistle: :whistle:

Problems create closeness and strengthen bonding with each other. :whistle: :whistle:

Depends on the nature of the problem. All problems will not bring the couples together, Problems can create irrevocable problems too. Wisdom lies in staying together problem or no problem.