There is a saying that people come into our lives for a reason ....so, without judging anyone we simply interact with them and then decide whether to keep them for life or let go...
Yes we expect a few traits in the people with whom we want to associate ourselves. Its but natural. But before that did you ever introspect if you are ready to reciprocate the same to those who want to associate themselves with you ?. It’s a give and take phenomenon. Be good to get good.