Progression of Marriage!

:laugh: :laugh: Wow great. I could hardly stop laughing when I read that. Totally hilarious! :lol: :lol:

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Why Agarbatti after 40 years I wonder :dry:...the rest of them are partly true ! I would put the third category to after 25 or 30 years ...

None in my case. Its serenity and tranquility all the way.

I understand other things but not agarbati. This is for worship. Is it that couple is dead and then abarbati is lit in their memory.

I understand other things but not agarbati. This is for worship. Is it that couple is dead and then abarbati is lit in their memory.

Well, that's possible. But jsut it does not sound good to say that, I didn't mention it in my first response above.

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Why Agarbatti after 40 years I wonder :dry:...the rest of them are partly true ! I would put the third category to after 25 or 30 years ...

That is because old people mostly start worshipping in their own rooms, I guess!

Also, the third category now starts just after 6-7 years and not 15 years! :dry: :blink:

I understand other things but not agarbati. This is for worship. Is it that couple is dead and then abarbati is lit in their memory.

Well, that's possible. But jsut it does not sound good to say that, I didn't mention it in my first response above.

Sounding good or bad does not alter the fact of life. I think that there should be a retiring room for senior citizens awaiting death shortly very near to crematorium, preferably electric. This will enable them to lose love for the family and die peacefully and shift to salvage room very comfortably. :laugh:

It all depends on a person where he lives and feels. How could it be true for a person who has not heard of Agarbatti or any battis for that matter? All about upbringing and ones own circumstances.

It all depends on a person where he lives and feels. How could it be true for a person who has not heard of Agarbatti or any battis for that matter? All about upbringing and ones own circumstances.

Yes Sunil ji... And i also believe that after Agarbatti. Its for both religious and calm purpose that home remains free from all ailments and keeps fresh all the time.

It all depends on a person where he lives and feels. How could it be true for a person who has not heard of Agarbatti or any battis for that matter? All about upbringing and ones own circumstances.

agarbati is for those who know this. For others, you need to modify by replacing abarbati with some other similar thing. This remind me of Christian missionaries difficulty in explaining in Assam- It is easier for a camel to go through eye of needle for a rich man to go to heaven. People had not seen camel. Then a suggestion was given to replace 'camel' with 'elephant' that the Assamese knew.

The first 15 years after marriage is the "Grihastha" stage and after that its "Vanaprastha" and "Sannyasa" stage and I think the agarbatti signifies these two stages.

The first 15 years after marriage is the "Grihastha" stage and after that its "Vanaprastha" and "Sannyasa" stage and I think the agarbatti signifies these two stages.

Is it so? Have they reduced duration from 25 to 15, maybe soon it'll be 10 and who knows the way the relations are turning sour, even an year would be matter of celebrations. Diamond jubilee in 5 years perhaps. :laugh:

Nice explanation. I am in between 15 years and ya I use all of this pain killer.

:laugh: :laugh: Wow great. I could hardly stop laughing when I read that. Totally hilarious! :lol: :lol:

These are stage of every life, we all experience these. Jindgi Char Dink Ki hai

The first 15 years after marriage is the "Grihastha" stage and after that its "Vanaprastha" and "Sannyasa" stage and I think the agarbatti signifies these two stages.

If I am not wrong (and I am sure I am not :laugh: can't stop), the ashramas are divided in 25 years each and not 15.

:laugh: :laugh: Wow great. I could hardly stop laughing when I read that. Totally hilarious! :lol: :lol:

These are stage of every life, we all experience these. Jindgi Char Dink Ki hai

I wholeheartedly agree with that , because you know it , it is time to say goodbye....but in a way it is nice, when you are busy living life it doesn't really matter when you go as long as you are leading a busy life !

This is really chinmoy jee now you are having agarbatti in your bedroom.