Hard Fact About Relationships!

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Very true, however, no matter how careful and understanding one is , sometimes cracks do appear in relationships but with timely repair things can go back to what they were before...

Every edifice of Relationship stands on the foundation of Understanding. Weak foundation makes the relationship crumble.

Every edifice of Relationship stands on the foundation of Understanding. Weak foundation makes the relationship crumble.

I don't agree with this. True that the relationship builds on foundation. But it is not the weak foundation that crumbles.

Then what do you think is the reason for strained relationships?

When there is good time going on, there won't be any problem to prove the relationship. However, when the testing times come, only then we know how close we are to the other person.

Then what do you think is the reason for strained relationships?

In Tamil we say, "only if the gold is put on fire, it becomes pure".
Also we say, "only if we hit a stone repeatedly,it becomes a statue".
Similarly only if there is a crack in relationship, it becomes more stronger. Sometimes misunderstanding is possible in responsible for the crumble and not the weak foundation.

Then what do you think is the reason for strained relationships?

In Tamil we say, "only if the gold is put on fire, it becomes pure".
Also we say, "only if we hit a stone repeatedly,it becomes a statue".
Similarly only if there is a crack in relationship, it becomes more stronger. Sometimes misunderstanding is possible in responsible for the crumble and not the weak foundation.

If you hit a stone repeatedly, it becomes a sculpture? I could not follow it. Please elaborate.

Then what do you think is the reason for strained relationships?

In Tamil we say, "only if the gold is put on fire, it becomes pure".
Also we say, "only if we hit a stone repeatedly,it becomes a statue".
Similarly only if there is a crack in relationship, it becomes more stronger. Sometimes misunderstanding is possible in responsible for the crumble and not the weak foundation.

If you hit a stone repeatedly, it becomes a sculpture? I could not follow it. Please elaborate.

Only if the stone is hit repeatedly with a chisel, it can be carved into a statue. Thats it. Hope its clear now.

Then what do you think is the reason for strained relationships?

In Tamil we say, "only if the gold is put on fire, it becomes pure".
Also we say, "only if we hit a stone repeatedly,it becomes a statue".
Similarly only if there is a crack in relationship, it becomes more stronger. Sometimes misunderstanding is possible in responsible for the crumble and not the weak foundation.

If you hit a stone repeatedly, it becomes a sculpture? I could not follow it. Please elaborate.

Only if the stone is hit repeatedly with a chisel, it can be carved into a statue. Thats it. Hope its clear now.

If a stone is hit with a chisel it breaks. A sculptor chisels a sculpture. Never hits. Hope you understood the difference between Chiseling and Hitting.

Very true, however, no matter how careful and understanding one is , sometimes cracks do appear in relationships but with timely repair things can go back to what they were before...

Every edifice of Relationship stands on the foundation of Understanding. Weak foundation makes the relationship crumble.

Very true, however, no matter how careful and understanding one is , sometimes cracks do appear in relationships but with timely repair things can go back to what they were before...

Every edifice of Relationship stands on the foundation of Understanding. Weak foundation makes the relationship crumble.

Very true, no matter how much patch work you do the relationship is bound to collapse at some stage or the other. Relationships are not easy to maintain but when there is harmony and understanding it is not that difficult either !

When there is good time going on, there won't be any problem to prove the relationship. However, when the testing times come, only then we know how close we are to the other person.

True, it is only during the hard times that one really reveals one's true nature and that plays a great role in close relationships!

Very true, however, no matter how careful and understanding one is , sometimes cracks do appear in relationships but with timely repair things can go back to what they were before...

Every edifice of Relationship stands on the foundation of Understanding. Weak foundation makes the relationship crumble.

Very true, no matter how much patch work you do the relationship is bound to collapse at some stage or the other. Relationships are not easy to maintain but when there is harmony and understanding it is not that difficult either !

Very true, however, no matter how careful and understanding one is , sometimes cracks do appear in relationships but with timely repair things can go back to what they were before...

Every edifice of Relationship stands on the foundation of Understanding. Weak foundation makes the relationship crumble.

Very true, no matter how much patch work you do the relationship is bound to collapse at some stage or the other. Relationships are not easy to maintain but when there is harmony and understanding it is not that difficult either !

Exactly! One needs to be mature enough to understand to maintain relationships. If any of the partner is less understanding its going to break in future. No relationship lasts longer without understanding. :blink: