Having pen pals where? Anyone does........?

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Can I get any pen pals here? I am really excited to have pen pals. In this age of instant and virtually paperless communication, having pen pals is one of a kind experience.

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It seems you are not happy with the advancement of the technology..... Anil ji and Gulshan ji are right that only medium is changed , earlier we used to write letter now we compose mail, earlier we deliver thru postal department and now it is Internet. Friends are same.


It is not really a question of technology but I feel that receiving personal letters and notes have a more personal touch than receiving an email or an SMS. Also, taking time and efforts to write a personal letter means that you consider the relationship as being valuable and it would surprise you that in countries like UK it is still considered rude to wish someone on birthday or Christmas etc. via electronics!
Also, the nostalgia and memories attached to such letters and notes are invaluable and beats technology every time.

You got my point Kalyani. I meant to say that what all you have said. But I was in no mood to say that all. I was very tired of typing :woohoo:


Yes Abhijit because I am one of those who still believe in the good old snail mail, especially when sending greetings, thank you notes etc, only I send them by courier instead of regular post as they take ages to reach their destination! And don't let your mood get the better of you or you may be misunderstood at times! :woohoo:

see my article I have written long back on this subject!
http://www.boddunan.com/articles/miscellaneous/51-general-reference/13139-the-power-of-writing.html


We have no option but to move with time and technology. No we cannot venture sending letters through pigeons.


No one is using pigeons and then again, it is purely a matter of personal preference! Those who consider sentimental values as being important will never give up on personal communication such as letters, others who do not can stick to digital version!

That's right. We aren't talking about pigeons. But as you rightly said, there is something of a sentiment attached to writing than just typing. It is not the question of sending urgent mails through traditional ways. It is just like writing a simple letter and exchanging a few thoughts, that's it. Old is gold, after all.
I used to have a few pen pals who have now turned facebook friends lol....however, I do write letters to a few cousins and my children once in a way just to keep up the habit.i have noticed that thoughts flow better when I sit with a notepad and pen and I also make it a point to preserve all the letters I get since they are few and far in between..
I used to have a few pen pals who have now turned facebook friends lol....however, I do write letters to a few cousins and my children once in a way just to keep up the habit.i have noticed that thoughts flow better when I sit with a notepad and pen and I also make it a point to preserve all the letters I get since they are few and far in between..

Oh wow Ushaji, that's great. Robert has already become my pal and he has sent me his address too. I will write a letter to him tomorrow as it is holiday. I would also like you to become my pen friend.
I used to have a few pen pals who have now turned facebook friends lol....however, I do write letters to a few cousins and my children once in a way just to keep up the habit.i have noticed that thoughts flow better when I sit with a notepad and pen and I also make it a point to preserve all the letters I get since they are few and far in between..

Oh wow Ushaji, that's great. Robert has already become my pal and he has sent me his address too. I will write a letter to him tomorrow as it is holiday. I would also like you to become my pen friend.


Great! Good to hear this from you. I am eagerly looking forward to your letter so that I can reply using your address in that letter.
I used to have a few pen pals who have now turned facebook friends lol....however, I do write letters to a few cousins and my children once in a way just to keep up the habit.i have noticed that thoughts flow better when I sit with a notepad and pen and I also make it a point to preserve all the letters I get since they are few and far in between..

Oh wow Ushaji, that's great. Robert has already become my pal and he has sent me his address too. I will write a letter to him tomorrow as it is holiday. I would also like you to become my pen friend.


Great! Good to hear this from you. I am eagerly looking forward to your letter so that I can reply using your address in that letter.

Yes, you should get that in 3-4 days. I think that much time should be enough. And then I will start waiting for your reply :laugh: :laugh:
Few years ago - I have seen several advertisement s regarding penpal in newspapers. Besides , there were few penpal magazines too.
Few years ago - I have seen several advertisement s regarding penpal in newspapers. Besides , there were few penpal magazines too.

Penpal magazines? And what's that? Actually I am hearing that for the first time.
Few years ago - I have seen several advertisement s regarding penpal in newspapers. Besides , there were few penpal magazines too.

Penpal magazines? And what's that? Actually I am hearing that for the first time.


There were pen friends club and magazines years ago. There used to be separate classified columns in newspapers for penfriends. But now all this has been replaced by Facebook, Twitter etc.
Few years ago - I have seen several advertisement s regarding penpal in newspapers. Besides , there were few penpal magazines too.

Penpal magazines? And what's that? Actually I am hearing that for the first time.


There were pen friends club and magazines years ago. There used to be separate classified columns in newspapers for penfriends. But now all this has been replaced by Facebook, Twitter etc.

Yes, Facebook is everywhere today. And most people are there. At times, it is a matter of fun if anyone is not on FB.
I heard about the pen pals. But I don't have any pen pal friends. :( :( :( :(
I heard about the pen pals. But I don't have any pen pal friends. :( :( :( :(

Actually I too don't have any. Robert has become my first pen pal here. I hope you will be mine.
You could have added me as your pen pal but i shall be without an address very soon. Once I come back maybe you can add me if you wish.
Ha haa... Nice one.. Old memories revived.. I had one in Taiwan. Came in contact thorough internet.. We wrote each other few times but after that she got lost... But it was great to write letters....
Ha haa... Nice one.. Old memories revived.. I had one in Taiwan. Came in contact thorough internet.. We wrote each other few times but after that she got lost... But it was great to write letters....


No this is not a joke but, I shall be away for 10 months although not away from here. However I shall have no address in India.
Yeah... I laughed because the topic amused me... as it revived my memories...
Its great to have pen pals..
Yeah... I laughed because the topic amused me... as it revived my memories...
Its great to have pen pals..


I don't think anyone would want me to pen pal during this period because that would be a costly affair for both of us.
Why would you say that... And also its everyone's own personal choice whether they feel like writing of not ?
And why would it be costly ? Anything fishy... ?
Why would you say that... And also its everyone's own personal choice whether they feel like writing of not ?
And why would it be costly ? Anything fishy... ?


Postal charges are almost 100/ per letter. I am not sure any one would like to befriend such a costly penfriend.
Ha haa... Nice one.. Old memories revived.. I had one in Taiwan. Came in contact thorough internet.. We wrote each other few times but after that she got lost... But it was great to write letters....


No this is not a joke but, I shall be away for 10 months although not away from here. However I shall have no address in India.

I guess you will be moving to Australia. But then you will have your family back home, na. I am not saying that I will write a letter to you then. But you do have a parmanent address here after all.
Ha haa... Nice one.. Old memories revived.. I had one in Taiwan. Came in contact thorough internet.. We wrote each other few times but after that she got lost... But it was great to write letters....


No this is not a joke but, I shall be away for 10 months although not away from here. However I shall have no address in India.

I guess you will be moving to Australia. But then you will have your family back home, na. I am not saying that I will write a letter to you then. But you do have a parmanent address here after all.


I shall lock my home for 10 months, I shall be back next year in January. My wife is accompanying me, after all we have done this trip for a purpose.

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