Why couples often hide this matter?

Two days before I phoned one of my dearest friends of my college days. I have mentioned about him many times here. I was non-stop for about 15 minutes and when I was to put down the phone, he said, "Sandhya, I have a happy news to share with you". He was married last May and I thought, that's the matter, his wife is pregnant. "So, you have good news. Happy to hear :cheer: :cheer: ", I replied. But suddenly he said, "It's a boy" :blink: . I became quiet for a moment. In the past 1 year, I have called him several times, but not even once he has mentioned it. Last month too, I called him and talked for about half an hour. Yet, why did he hide it from me? Am his dearest friend, yet why should he feel shy to tell me so?
I am still searching for a gun to shoot him :angry:

I often feel that people are shy to reveal this matter. Most of them reveals the matter only after delivery. Why should couples hide??? :whistle: :whistle:

Two days before I phoned one of my dearest friends of my college days. I have mentioned about him many times here. I was non-stop for about 15 minutes and when I was to put down the phone, he said, "Sandhya, I have a happy news to share with you". He was married last May and I thought, that's the matter, his wife is pregnant. "So, you have good news. Happy to hear :cheer: :cheer: ", I replied. But suddenly he said, "It's a boy" :blink: . I became quiet for a moment. In the past 1 year, I have called him several times, but not even once he has mentioned it. Last month too, I called him and talked for about half an hour. Yet, why did he hide it from me? Am his dearest friend, yet why should he feel shy to tell me so?
I am still searching for a gun to shoot him :angry:

I often feel that people are shy to reveal this matter. Most of them reveals the matter only after delivery. Why should couples hide??? :whistle: :whistle:

Two days before I phoned one of my dearest friends of my college days. I have mentioned about him many times here. I was non-stop for about 15 minutes and when I was to put down the phone, he said, "Sandhya, I have a happy news to share with you". He was married last May and I thought, that's the matter, his wife is pregnant. "So, you have good news. Happy to hear :cheer: :cheer: ", I replied. But suddenly he said, "It's a boy" :blink: . I became quiet for a moment. In the past 1 year, I have called him several times, but not even once he has mentioned it. Last month too, I called him and talked for about half an hour. Yet, why did he hide it from me? Am his dearest friend, yet why should he feel shy to tell me so?
I am still searching for a gun to shoot him :angry:

I often feel that people are shy to reveal this matter. Most of them reveals the matter only after delivery. Why should couples hide??? :whistle: :whistle:

I am sure you are trying to finish your balance of prepaid mobile before you change to another service provider. Actually men are not as talkative as women so talk to the point only.

Two days before I phoned one of my dearest friends of my college days. I have mentioned about him many times here. I was non-stop for about 15 minutes and when I was to put down the phone, he said, "Sandhya, I have a happy news to share with you". He was married last May and I thought, that's the matter, his wife is pregnant. "So, you have good news. Happy to hear :cheer: :cheer: ", I replied. But suddenly he said, "It's a boy" :blink: . I became quiet for a moment. In the past 1 year, I have called him several times, but not even once he has mentioned it. Last month too, I called him and talked for about half an hour. Yet, why did he hide it from me? Am his dearest friend, yet why should he feel shy to tell me so?
I am still searching for a gun to shoot him :angry:

I often feel that people are shy to reveal this matter. Most of them reveals the matter only after delivery. Why should couples hide??? :whistle: :whistle:

I am sure you are trying to finish your balance of prepaid mobile before you change to another service provider. Actually men are not as talkative as women so talk to the point only.

i have 400 free calls for bsnl now, every month :cheer: :cheer:

Actually i have completed my mobile balance to do portability. I want to call someone today to greet, got the number. But no money balance. Today shops are closed too :( :(
My bsnl land line is not working for two days :silly: :silly: . Net works on a single line, though it's bit slow now :whistle:

Yes that's right normally men don't talk about it. This may be because they feel shy to discuss it with others unlike women. :lol:

Men are not so talkative as like women. They are shy, So don't opens their-selves.

Men are not so talkative as like women. They are shy, So don't opens their-selves.

Sandhya i will narrate one incidence that happend 8 months back

I was constantly following up with my friend who was carrying till 7 months. i used to tell her why she dint inform our batch mates and she said she wanted to confirm and then only revel to all of us about her motherhood.

Unfortunately she had an abortion done due to a condition called thrombosis and she suffered a lot . Infact one of our other batch mates called her and she said she had an abortion and the news was known to everyone in our class. so my friend dint like it, it is very much embarrassing and also hurt.

It is better to have confirm the news after delivery ....that makes sense...

Sandhya i will narrate one incidence that happend 8 months back

I was constantly following up with my friend who was carrying till 7 months. i used to tell her why she dint inform our batch mates and she said she wanted to confirm and then only revel to all of us about her motherhood.

Unfortunately she had an abortion done due to a condition called thrombosis and she suffered a lot . Infact one of our other batch mates called her and she said she had an abortion and the news was known to everyone in our class. so my friend dint like it, it is very much embarrassing and also hurt.

It is better to have confirm the news after delivery ....that makes sense...

it's a nice reply :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:

Yet I can't agree fully that we should hide this happy new from our dear ones....particularly if it's the first kid

Yes that's right normally men don't talk about it. This may be because they feel shy to discuss it with others unlike women. :lol:

I never heard about this. In my society especially in my state both men and women unabashedly speak about conception, pregnancy and parenthood.

Yes that's right normally men don't talk about it. This may be because they feel shy to discuss it with others unlike women. :lol:

I never heard about this. In my society especially in my state both men and women unabashedly speak about conception, pregnancy and parenthood.

No pregnancy is not a sin. :blink: But still I have noticed men don't talk about it I don't know what is the exact reason for it. It may be they feel embarrassed to talk about it. :laugh: Just a guess. :blink:

Yes that's right normally men don't talk about it. This may be because they feel shy to discuss it with others unlike women. :lol:

I never heard about this. In my society especially in my state both men and women unabashedly speak about conception, pregnancy and parenthood.

No pregnancy is not a sin. :blink: But still I have noticed men don't talk about it I don't know what is the exact reason for it. It may be they feel embarrassed to talk about it. :laugh: Just a guess. :blink:

then tell about you :cheer:
No need to guess :woohoo: :evil: