The results of rash driving

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It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.

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That's really sad. Now Mother is all alone !!

Parents should be careful on such things. Kids always demand but it is parent's duty to decide that which should be full fill and which must be not.

And driving is thing which is only for mature people. No one should take it as GAME where they can race and all that.. TOO RISKY.
I feel sad for such mishaps. It is necessary to observe road safety. Heartiest condolence.
I also feel sad. It is very unfortunate. Parents should be more careful.
That's really sad. Now Mother is all alone !!

Parents should be careful on such things. Kids always demand but it is parent's duty to decide that which should be full fill and which must be not.

And driving is thing which is only for mature people. No one should take it as GAME where they can race and all that.. TOO RISKY.

I totally blame the parents for such things. If they can't control their kids, nothing is sadder than this. The craze for bikes is too powerful among such children. There are many children like this who pay a heavy price of their deeds.
That's really sad. Now Mother is all alone !!

Parents should be careful on such things. Kids always demand but it is parent's duty to decide that which should be full fill and which must be not.

And driving is thing which is only for mature people. No one should take it as GAME where they can race and all that.. TOO RISKY.

I totally blame the parents for such things. If they can't control their kids, nothing is sadder than this. The craze for bikes is too powerful among such children. There are many children like this who pay a heavy price of their deeds.

Yes we should not handover the key of bike unless he/ she gets matured.
That's really sad. Now Mother is all alone !!

Parents should be careful on such things. Kids always demand but it is parent's duty to decide that which should be full fill and which must be not.

And driving is thing which is only for mature people. No one should take it as GAME where they can race and all that.. TOO RISKY.

I totally blame the parents for such things. If they can't control their kids, nothing is sadder than this. The craze for bikes is too powerful among such children. There are many children like this who pay a heavy price of their deeds.

Yes we should not handover the key of bike unless he/ she gets matured.

I had learnt in school and college that fear saves one from getting hurt. If the children are aware of the pains and the dangers associated with such rash driving, they will themselves be careful and not drive until they are confident. The children are children after all. But the parents should be accountable for this.
Very sad. Rash driving leads to accident which in turn may lead to death.
Abhijeet, I am very sad to know that someone close to you has met with such a terrible fate, and he is so young too! Really sad! But what were the parents thinking when they permitted him to take the bike out at such young age?? Why is everyone in so much hurry to grow up? :blink: :unsure:
Very sad. Rash driving leads to accident which in turn may lead to death.

On many occasions such driving is the culprit and center of accusations. I don’t know what to say to these kids who do not care about themselves, leave alone anyone else.
Abhijeet, I am very sad to know that someone close to you has met with such a terrible fate, and he is so young too! Really sad! But what were the parents thinking when they permitted him to take the bike out at such young age?? Why is everyone in so much hurry to grow up? :blink: :unsure:

Do you think no one prevented him from riding the bike? No. Let me tell you the other side. Though I still blame the parents for this, they too are humans after all. This kid's mother was at her wits end trying to see her son see reason of not driving. But he persisted and said that he would drive just for today - this fateful day. He said that he just wanted one chance to drive (or may be go away from us all :( )
It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.


That is really sad and this is not the first time such a thing has happened all because of the parents carelessness and thoughtlessness...The mother must have been indulgent thinking that nothing will happen but now I can imagine how she must feel ! Of course legally they cannot do anything, but the greatest tragedy is losing the child...
It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.


That is really sad and this is not the first time such a thing has happened all because of the parents carelessness and thoughtlessness...The mother must have been indulgent thinking that nothing will happen but now I can imagine how she must feel ! Of course legally they cannot do anything, but the greatest tragedy is losing the child...

Yes, it is not the first instance and unfortunately, it might not even be the last. People just aren't ready to learn from examples they see around them. A family or a person can bear any loss, but one cannot undo the loss of their dear ones.
It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.


That is really sad and this is not the first time such a thing has happened all because of the parents carelessness and thoughtlessness...The mother must have been indulgent thinking that nothing will happen but now I can imagine how she must feel ! Of course legally they cannot do anything, but the greatest tragedy is losing the child...

Yes, it is not the first instance and unfortunately, it might not even be the last. People just aren't ready to learn from examples they see around them. A family or a person can bear any loss, but one cannot undo the loss of their dear ones.


In spite of everyone knowing that there are rules and our roads are deadly and there are any number of blood thirsty drivers out there, why do parents dont take care? I remember my own son pleading with me to let him ride a two wheeler and even going on the road with his friends without my knowledge, but I had a proper talk with him when I came to know about it and told him to practice on the grounds and get a licence before taking it on the road, which thankfully he did.... we have to dissuade them for their own good , all it takes is a fraction of a second ...
It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.


That is really sad and this is not the first time such a thing has happened all because of the parents carelessness and thoughtlessness...The mother must have been indulgent thinking that nothing will happen but now I can imagine how she must feel ! Of course legally they cannot do anything, but the greatest tragedy is losing the child...

Yes, it is not the first instance and unfortunately, it might not even be the last. People just aren't ready to learn from examples they see around them. A family or a person can bear any loss, but one cannot undo the loss of their dear ones.


In spite of everyone knowing that there are rules and our roads are deadly and there are any number of blood thirsty drivers out there, why do parents dont take care? I remember my own son pleading with me to let him ride a two wheeler and even going on the road with his friends without my knowledge, but I had a proper talk with him when I came to know about it and told him to practice on the grounds and get a licence before taking it on the road, which thankfully he did.... we have to dissuade them for their own good , all it takes is a fraction of a second ...

You are a fortunate mother to have such a son who abide by you. There aren't such people around like you. Some are unfortunate enough to lose their dear ones. I am sure if parents show maturity and have talk with their kids and spend some time with them, they will listen.
It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.


You yourself said the cause for this malady. Just a simple question. Can any young man in a family act without the knowledge and consent of the elders and the their financial aid? For every undoing of youth, indirectly or directly there is a cause and that cause is invariably in most of the cases is linked with the elders.
It has been a sad day today. The son of my sister's brother-in-law passed away this morning :( He had a craze for driving bikes even when he was still learning. He was only in 11th std. and wouldn't mind without a bike. He had already lost his father 8 years back and now this happened. How silly of his mother who also agreed to give him a bike even when he was not 18! It is sad and unfortunate, but against law. There is nothing the family can do now. They don't have any legal background to make a case in court of law.


You yourself said the cause for this malady. Just a simple question. Can any young man in a family act without the knowledge and consent of the elders and the their financial aid? For every undoing of youth, indirectly or directly there is a cause and that cause is invariably in most of the cases is linked with the elders.

I am really taking a neutral position on this issue. I do feel sorry for the mother and at the same time feel like totally blaming her. But kids are such stubborn these days, it is difficult to control them. Saying it is easy. But the fear of them doing something cannot be avoided at all.
Blaming to any is not right but this may be better to take care of children.,
Blaming to any is not right but this may be better to take care of children.,

Well, use the word blame or not, but someone should be held accountable for such things, isn’t it? Of course, parents do take care of their children. But at times, they too have to back off.

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