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Some of the points mentioned are okay but ignoring insult may encourage the other party to try some more. I have different ideas to counter such situation.
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U
Some of the points mentioned are okay but ignoring insult may encourage the other party to try some more. I have different ideas to counter such situation.

It varies from person to person and the nature of insult
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U
The real issue is expectation. I do not expect respect or love. If others give, this is their outlook. If not, against this is their outlook. If you are not bothered about this, there is no question of accepting or rejecting respect or insult. This is simply irrelevant.
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U
True if some one is trying to give us some thing and we are not accepting it, how can any one force it on us!!
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U
True if some one is trying to give us some thing and we are not accepting it, how can any one force it on us!!


This reminds me of an anecdote. Once an Englishman handed over Gandhiji some papers containing abusive words. Gandhiji just glanced, removed pin and threw away papers. The Englishman was surprised at this. Gandhi said that he was thankful for the pin and he threw the other things that5 were of no use.
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True if some one is trying to give us some thing and we are not accepting it, how can any one force it on us!!


This reminds me of an anecdote. Once an Englishman handed over Gandhiji some papers containing abusive words. Gandhiji just glanced, removed pin and threw away papers. The Englishman was surprised at this. Gandhi said that he was thankful for the pin and he threw the other things that5 were of no use.


And they say if you do not accept it then it remains with the one who is offering it.
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U
Ok but self criticism also needed otherwise ignore it.
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True if some one is trying to give us some thing and we are not accepting it, how can any one force it on us!!


This reminds me of an anecdote. Once an Englishman handed over Gandhiji some papers containing abusive words. Gandhiji just glanced, removed pin and threw away papers. The Englishman was surprised at this. Gandhi said that he was thankful for the pin and he threw the other things that5 were of no use.


Very interesting anecdote. As interesting as Gandhiji's simplicity
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U
Ok but self criticism also needed otherwise ignore it.


Yes, self analysis is of utmost importance before anything else
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I totally agree with that quote you either ignore it when it is undeserved and analyse it when you deserved it...
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U
The best way is to ignore it I do that. This is one way when you can't topple it as this is the only left for a person. :blink:
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U
I will accept an insult, if it is valid and teaches me anything. I will ignore if it doesn't deserve.
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I will accept an insult, if it is valid and teaches me anything. I will ignore if it doesn't deserve.


I always take it as a loan- I always clear the account with interest. Why should I keep any thing which I do not deserve?
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I will accept an insult, if it is valid and teaches me anything. I will ignore if it doesn't deserve.


I always take it as a loan- I always clear the account with interest. Why should I keep any thing which I do not deserve?


It is best to return the (insult) cheque to the drawer. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:
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I will accept an insult, if it is valid and teaches me anything. I will ignore if it doesn't deserve.


I always take it as a loan- I always clear the account with interest. Why should I keep any thing which I do not deserve?


It is best to return the (insult) cheque to the drawer. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer:


In case it's in form of cheque, I would return it with coins to clear the interest amounts, after all the drawer deserves some thing in return. :whistle:
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First of all, people should not inslut others unnecessarily. If a person is insulted, he should do as mentioned by Rambabu in this thread. It is good way to deal with insult. People has tendency to demotivate others. Insult becomes strong weapon to do so. Just tackle it.
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First of all, people should not inslut others unnecessarily. If a person is insulted, he should do as mentioned by Rambabu in this thread. It is good way to deal with insult. People has tendency to demotivate others. Insult becomes strong weapon to do so. Just tackle it.


Tackle it is okay but how to do it is important question. What do you suggest?
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U
Very informative quote about insult. All should take this type of attitude to face insult.
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U
I don't think it is always possible to laugh at insults unless it is a joke or some prank. However, it is not even encouraging. If we allow once then it may become a habit.
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When high maturity is there then we can laugh by an insult.
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