Stop thinking seriously ?

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

There are exceptions too. Not all girls become dumb after marriage

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

Some girls are unable to manage their Career and their own house.

There are many reasons behind this dumb. It may be due to family responsibilities or due to the behavior of mother in law or lost interest in career or habituated to homely life and many more

First of all please correct the spelling of career it is written as carrier... :)

I agree with you Fazelath that most of the girl act dumb after getting married. I think they feel secure as husband earns money and they may or may not need earnings. But not all girls think like that as in today's world income is essential to satisfy daily needs. So, girls are wise now and do anything for successful career.

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

Carrier! Here I stop thinking seriously and think over it again with utmost seriousness!! :S :S :S :S :S

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

Carrier! Here I stop thinking seriously and think over it again with utmost seriousness!! :S :S :S :S :S

hahaha :laugh: :laugh:
baby carrier :laugh: :laugh:

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

Carrier! Here I stop thinking seriously and think over it again with utmost seriousness!! :S :S :S :S :S

hahaha :laugh: :laugh:
baby carrier :laugh: :laugh:

I have seen many people using carriers here itself

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

Carrier! Here I stop thinking seriously and think over it again with utmost seriousness!! :S :S :S :S :S

hahaha :laugh: :laugh:
baby carrier :laugh: :laugh:

I didn't noticed this word in starting of this thread.
This is really funny to read.

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

Carrier! Here I stop thinking seriously and think over it again with utmost seriousness!! :S :S :S :S :S

hahaha :laugh: :laugh:
baby carrier :laugh: :laugh:

I didn't noticed this word in starting of this thread.
This is really funny to read.

Besides carrier thee are plethora of words which are being used in a wrong way and they are being unnoticed. Only a serious reader notices.

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

It's true, after marriage girls give preference to their family and bury their dreams very often. Yet I feel, things have changed a lot if we take a statistics of past 10-20 years. Now boys are opting for career oriented girls most :unsure: :unsure:

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

It's true, after marriage girls give preference to their family and bury their dreams very often. Yet I feel, things have changed a lot if we take a statistics of past 10-20 years. Now boys are opting for career oriented girls most :unsure: :unsure:

Yes, generation is changing so as the interest of boys. All the family wants a girl, who does any job.

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

It's true, after marriage girls give preference to their family and bury their dreams very often. Yet I feel, things have changed a lot if we take a statistics of past 10-20 years. Now boys are opting for career oriented girls most :unsure: :unsure:

Yes, generation is changing so as the interest of boys. All the family wants a girl, who does any job.

girls also have changed a lot.
They are now career oriented than before. They are choosing their husbands in the same way.....noting his profile, education, job etc

Why do girls after marriage stop thinking about themselves and about their carrier after marriage ? I have seen many girls who are ambitious before marriage become dumb like, and stop thinking for themselves and live for others ?

It's true, after marriage girls give preference to their family and bury their dreams very often. Yet I feel, things have changed a lot if we take a statistics of past 10-20 years. Now boys are opting for career oriented girls most :unsure: :unsure:

Yes, generation is changing so as the interest of boys. All the family wants a girl, who does any job.

girls also have changed a lot.
They are now career oriented than before. They are choosing their husbands in the same way.....noting his profile, education, job etc

Only a job will not make any difference. I think that a good job is necessary. I won't think that my girl is doing some job or not. But a girl may think or will like to have such a husband, who is having good job rather than just a job.

This is because marriage itself is considered a career as far as girls are concerned. For boys, this is just a family and social event and not beyond.

This is because marriage itself is considered a career as far as girls are concerned. For boys, this is just a family and social event and not beyond.

no sir....now marriage is a money-making business for boys
Those good days have gone where boys used to dream of a beautiful and homely girl. Now he is thinking, "What will I get in return if I marry this girl?"...now beauty, honesty, goodness, homely...such factors are not significant as before, while choosing a girl.
Car, bank balance, home, property, etc are more important

This is because marriage itself is considered a career as far as girls are concerned. For boys, this is just a family and social event and not beyond.

no sir....now marriage is a money-making business for boys
Those good days have gone where boys used to dream of a beautiful and homely girl. Now he is thinking, "What will I get in return if I marry this girl?"...now beauty, honesty, goodness, homely...such factors are not significant as before, while choosing a girl.
Car, bank balance, home, property, etc are more important

Marriage is also a business opportunity for boys and their parents. But married life is not considered a career for boys. There are 'housewives' and not 'househusbands'. This is the difference. But there may be very few exceptions.

This is because marriage itself is considered a career as far as girls are concerned. For boys, this is just a family and social event and not beyond.

no sir....now marriage is a money-making business for boys
Those good days have gone where boys used to dream of a beautiful and homely girl. Now he is thinking, "What will I get in return if I marry this girl?"...now beauty, honesty, goodness, homely...such factors are not significant as before, while choosing a girl.
Car, bank balance, home, property, etc are more important

Marriage is also a business opportunity for boys and their parents. But married life is not considered a career for boys. There are 'housewives' and not 'househusbands'. This is the difference. But there may be very few exceptions.

come to Kottayam.
You can see long queues of Christian boys waiting for BSc Nurses, who are employed in gulf countries.
Most of them are just 10th or 12th pass.
while their wives work, they do all household works including kitchen and children :dry: :blink: :blink: :blink: :blink:
it's better/profitable to employee a husband than a servant in gulf countries :whistle: :silly: :silly: :silly: :silly:

Rambabu, I don't mean dumb but they think about themselve, they think only for the husbands and kids

Yes you right Sandhya Rani, to an extend its become a business for boys, but there might me few exceptions too.