Apology

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

Many times to avoid any further confusion many say this but I am agree with Gulshanji's view.

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.[/

I agree with you. After all your individuality should be valued

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

absolutely right Sir :)
we can forgive a person even for big sins, if he understands his mistakes. otherwise never!!
forgiving such persons means we are promoting a crime or sin to happen again. by this way, indirectly we are committing another sin. Right?

also, we should have some respect. Otherwise the other person may not value our words.
according to our proverb, give alms who really deserve it, not all :)

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

absolutely right Sir :)
we can forgive a person even for big sins, if he understands his mistakes. otherwise never!!
forgiving such persons means we are promoting a crime or sin to happen again. by this way, indirectly we are committing another sin. Right?

also, we should have some respect. Otherwise the other person may not value our words.
according to our proverb, give alms who really deserve it, not all :)

But forgiveness is a great virtue. Atleast we can forgive for first mistake.

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

absolutely right Sir :)
we can forgive a person even for big sins, if he understands his mistakes. otherwise never!!
forgiving such persons means we are promoting a crime or sin to happen again. by this way, indirectly we are committing another sin. Right?

also, we should have some respect. Otherwise the other person may not value our words.
according to our proverb, give alms who really deserve it, not all :)

But forgiveness is a great virtue. Atleast we can forgive for first mistake.

I believe apologies at appropriate can help us build long lasting relationships. It is the most important key factor healthier relationships.

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

absolutely right Sir :)
we can forgive a person even for big sins, if he understands his mistakes. otherwise never!!
forgiving such persons means we are promoting a crime or sin to happen again. by this way, indirectly we are committing another sin. Right?

also, we should have some respect. Otherwise the other person may not value our words.
according to our proverb, give alms who really deserve it, not all :)

But forgiveness is a great virtue. Atleast we can forgive for first mistake.

I believe apologies at appropriate can help us build long lasting relationships. It is the most important key factor healthier relationships.

we should have a mind to ask apology for our mistakes. then only we can expect the same from others :)

We can always forgive someone who has done a wrong unknowingly but ifs/he does it knowingly there is no reason to forgive him/her or feel apologetic. Let them face what they deserve,

We can always forgive someone who has done a wrong unknowingly but ifs/he does it knowingly there is no reason to forgive him/her or feel apologetic. Let them face what they deserve,

yes, of course unknowing mistakes are forgivable.
i missed to add in my post :)

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

I too feel that if you are right there is no need to apologise and if the other person is not able to analyse and understand , that is upto the person...

Just to apologize for the sake of relationship always is not good one should also have some self respect. I never say "sorry" till I realize it or someone makes me realize that I wrong. :)

Just to apologize for the sake of relationship always is not good one should also have some self respect. I never say "sorry" till I realize it or someone makes me realize that I wrong. :)

nicely quoted sanjeev, very nice to hear :)
it seems you have turned philosophic nowadays ;)
is my friendship showing its colours? :laugh: :laugh:

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

I too feel that if you are right there is no need to apologise and if the other person is not able to analyse and understand , that is upto the person...

No need to kneel down before an undeserving person. But who is an undeserving person? . Who decides it? this 's where conflicts erupt.

I disagree. Apology for maintaining relation is highly opportunistic. when you feel you are right, there is no question of apology. You may politely say that you feel you are right. Accepting fault as well as accusing others unreasonably both are wrong.

I too feel that if you are right there is no need to apologise and if the other person is not able to analyse and understand , that is upto the person...

No need to kneel down before an undeserving person. But who is an undeserving person? . Who decides it? this 's where conflicts erupt.

yes, you have quoted a nice point..
actually, we humans always feel that we are always right :laugh: :laugh:
is it in his genes? :cheer:

Just to apologize for the sake of relationship always is not good one should also have some self respect. I never say "sorry" till I realize it or someone makes me realize that I wrong. :)

nicely quoted sanjeev, very nice to hear :)
it seems you have turned philosophic nowadays ;)
is my friendship showing its colours? :laugh: :laugh:

Yes it is showing colors. :laugh: :laugh:

Its not easy to remember the names of all who are behind the scene. :evil:

Just to apologize for the sake of relationship always is not good one should also have some self respect. I never say "sorry" till I realize it or someone makes me realize that I wrong. :)

nicely quoted sanjeev, very nice to hear :)
it seems you have turned philosophic nowadays ;)
is my friendship showing its colours? :laugh: :laugh:

Yes it is showing colors. :laugh: :laugh:

Its not easy to remember the names of all who are behind the scene. :evil:

according to our proverb, even a stone laying beneath a jasmine plant will have perfume :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: