Never judge someone before seeing him near

The story is nice. But our perception is based on normal situation and is generally correct. The case of boy born blind was an exception. In normal situation, the co passengers would be correct. Our decisions are based on normal situation and this is correct in 90% cases. Wrong perception in about 10% cases, which is also not so likely, does not matter.

Yes, it's true we are often mistaken when we begin to know someone near. So take time to judge someone, never assume someone's character by just 1 or 2 situations. :)
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The story is really heart touching. Yes this is true we must not judge the person by seeing near.

The story is nice. But our perception is based on normal situation and is generally correct. The case of boy born blind was an exception. In normal situation, the co passengers would be correct. Our decisions are based on normal situation and this is correct in 90% cases. Wrong perception in about 10% cases, which is also not so likely, does not matter.

But even the 10% wrong perception can harm the future of those concerned, this is better to judge well before reaching to a right conclusion. Wot say sir? Some times the ground realities are altogether different than what they appear in first appearance.

The story is nice. But our perception is based on normal situation and is generally correct. The case of boy born blind was an exception. In normal situation, the co passengers would be correct. Our decisions are based on normal situation and this is correct in 90% cases. Wrong perception in about 10% cases, which is also not so likely, does not matter.

But even the 10% wrong perception can harm the future of those concerned, this is better to judge well before reaching to a right conclusion. Wot say sir? Some times the ground realities are altogether different than what they appear in first appearance.

If you were to decide every time on basis of exceptions, you will do nothing. Let the exceptional cases and those concerned with that point out their special case. Otherwise, normalcy is presumed.

Sandhyaji this is one of the best message that you have posted here. This is matured but very good topic. I have faced many people who insult others for fun but don't care for other's feelings. They have tendency to insult others, be it a human being or an animal.
Many humans are highly qualified but less people have wisdom.

Understanding makes people wise. Good behaviour and social work makes him great.

Yes, it's true we are often mistaken when we begin to know someone near. So take time to judge someone, never assume someone's character by just 1 or 2 situations. :)
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Sandhya Madam, it is really a nice thread to be discussed about. We should never judge too early.

Yes, I have experienced it. Even I judged a boy in my college bus as a bad boy. But after speaking to him I understood that he is good.

Yes, it's true we are often mistaken when we begin to know someone near. So take time to judge someone, never assume someone's character by just 1 or 2 situations. :)
Just read this story
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Such a very nice story. Yes we could not judge anyone simply.

Yes, it's true we are often mistaken when we begin to know someone near. So take time to judge someone, never assume someone's character by just 1 or 2 situations. :)
Just read this story
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Sandhya Madam, it is really a nice thread to be discussed about. We should never judge too early.

It is worst to judge anybody without having any experience from him/her. I won't do such things

Judging people before knowing them is like judging a book without opening it.

The moment your eyes see something, mind perceives and forms it's own opinion. This we call as 'First impression' be it wrong or right, an impression stays, unless proved otherwise. It can't be helped.

Yes it is hundred percent true that we should judge any in one sight or interaction. Sometimes it may true but not everytime.

The moment your eyes see something, mind perceives and forms it's own opinion. This we call as 'First impression' be it wrong or right, an impression stays, unless proved otherwise. It can't be helped.

I do not know why you always write two posts instead of one. If this is for getting more points and posts, this is spam and not desirable.

This situation may come in anyone's life...you or me..
Yet may be a lively person who keeps good relationship with everyone. Sometimes you may be disturbed by a problem or upset by a recent event. A person.....may be a neighbour or friend who haven't meet you most recently and so, he doesn't know what happened to you most recently. It's sure, if you are disturbed you may behave indifferent and that person can misinterpret it as "you have changed a lot". Some say it openly while some others keep it in mind itself. Perhaps years after he may know the truth and may regret over false interpretations....
So, not for new relations only......already existing relations should also be given time to know everything...we can't say which moment time can change everything!!

I think as some one said rightly that some people leave their impression easily and instantly, but they always are not the same and may prove different later. Although this may not make much of a difference to the one who is not wrong within. Wrong is always wrong while the right one always proves himself right, so nothing to worry.

The persons we see in street or train are often not relevant for our daily routine. So whatever impression they give- good or bad, correct or incorrect- is immaterial. The impression also fades soon as this is not relevant. However when the peron matters for long term relation, we should not be swayed by first impression only but wait for gaining more information.

Thanks, That's what I mean, the one who is not wrong would prove himself right and the one who felt sweet might give a bitter experience later, again nothing to worry.

Hereafter we should never judge anyone without having proper experience.

We cannot know one's character by just seeing him/her once.To know more about one person we must have to get in touch with them.

The story is nice. But our perception is based on normal situation and is generally correct. The case of boy born blind was an exception. In normal situation, the co passengers would be correct. Our decisions are based on normal situation and this is correct in 90% cases. Wrong perception in about 10% cases, which is also not so likely, does not matter.

We are not the right person to judge anyone else. If you judge anyone in hurry, it is 100% wrong,