Woman left to be raped

Girl should not marry a coward man. It is better to live alone. If a man cannot protect his wife, atleast he can kill his wife to avoid such horrible incident.

Girl should not marry a coward man. It is better to live alone. If a man cannot protect his wife, atleast he can kill his wife to avoid such horrible incident.

why do you suggest killing wife if she cannot be saved from rape. No doubt, in this case, the husband as well as friend could show courage. Quite likely, the woman would still be raped and both men killed or seriously wounded. The husband at least promptly reported to police.

The incident is very bad and is indicative of horrible state of law and order. But there is no point in saying that killing is better than rape. Even after rape, the woman is alive and she can be consoled and brought to normalcy.

Let me here recall an incident at Mathura about thirty years ago. A man was going somewhere with his wife and sister. On the way, some miscreants attempted to molest and rape the women. The man protested. The woman understood that it was no use fighting so many. so she asked her husband to leave her there and leave with his sister. The miscreants permitted this. Next day, women came back home after group rape. Thus she saved her unmarried sister in law by surrendering herself. Is this not a wise decision by woman as well as her husband.

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

This is bizarre! Had the woman's husband and friend shown a little courage the incident could have been avoided. Those two men are no less than the culprits!

The two may have asked for help from outsiders also, if they couldn't do anything. But timing is very important. If they had taken a step at the correct time then the incident could have been avoided.

The two may have asked help from outsiders also, if they couldn't do anything. But timing is very important. If they had taken a step at the correct time then the incident could have been avoided.

They were in the jungle at the time of the unfortunate incident. So naturally could not have got any help.

Oh that is ridiculous.How can a husband who has to protect his wife in any circumstance leave his wife?.Actually he is not a man his wife should leave him.I am really surprised if it really happens in this world. :evil:

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

What is that suppose to mean?? Why should she not return home? Only a family and friends can give mental support to a woman who has gone through such traumatic experience. Also, why should the woman who is raped commit suicide?? She should live to see that justice is done to her through the legal ways.

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

What is that suppose to mean?? Why should she not return home? Only a family and friends can give mental support to a woman who has gone through such traumatic experience. Also, why should the woman who is raped commit suicide?? She should live to see that justice is done to her through the legal ways.

Even I agree with you Jabeen the victim of rape is not a culprit then why should she be ashamed of and commit suicide but those who raped her should be punished. I remember one of the incident in Delhi where south east girl was raped but like you said she did not commit suicide but she helped Police to find out those men who did this crime. :)

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

There is no point in encouraging rape, which is a crime. But to suggest the victim should commit suicide or kill the offender and consequently face murder charge in court is not sensible. The proper course is that:
First, take legal action against the offender and prosecute him. Next, encourage the victim to get normal and lead life as usual. Why should a woman be made to feel guilty for no fault of her. In similar circumstances, a man does not feel guilty. Why should a woman? Let us fight for removing double standards on chastity. Men and women should be subjected to same criteria.

Ok I take back what ever I have written here. 90 % rape cases are in waiting list. Women become old and finally dies. She don't get justice. Hardly few charges are proved in the court.

Ok I take back what ever I have written here. 90 % rape cases are in waiting list. Women become old and finally dies. She don't get justice. Hardly few charges are proved in the court.

Except in few cases, most of the rape victims do not get justice because they do not make a formal complaint fearing the stigma associated with it. Often the victims and her family members do not co-operate with the police others to know about the incident. And until and unless they co-operate it becomes difficult for the police to take action.

Ok I take back what ever I have written here. 90 % rape cases are in waiting list. Women become old and finally dies. She don't get justice. Hardly few charges are proved in the court.

Except in few cases, most of the rape victims do not get justice because they do not make a formal complaint fearing the stigma associated with it. Often the victims and her family members do not co-operate with the police others to know about the incident. And until and unless they co-operate it becomes difficult for the police to take action.

Rightly stated that victims fear stigma associated with rape. Stigma is worse than rape. we need a change in mindset by campaigning hard. Stigma must be removed. The raped women must feel no shame. This is what actually needs be done. People are normal after theft and injury but they get so abnormal on rape. This is the main issue rather than actual rape.

Women weather married or unmarried are the victims of rape.Every day in news I just watch that a women being raped by her nephew or some other family members.Really its a very shameful for us.That whom we believe and who are our relatives or near ones they did these type of crime.

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

What is that suppose to mean?? Why should she not return home? Only a family and friends can give mental support to a woman who has gone through such traumatic experience. Also, why should the woman who is raped commit suicide?? She should live to see that justice is done to her through the legal ways.

me too surprised with Devayani's post? :blink:

then where should she go, Devayani?
is it her fault?

It's really shocking that both men left her. Instead they should have fight back.

Also, it's bit risky to travel through such lonely places...such risks should be avoided at any cost.

This is nothing but encouraging the rapists. Each and every rapists should be killed. They don't have right to survive. I don't understand how a woman can come back home after being raped by so many people. I agree that she was brave enough to save her husband and sister in law.
I last option that a woman gets to do in such situation is murder or suicide. I will opt for murder.

What is that suppose to mean?? Why should she not return home? Only a family and friends can give mental support to a woman who has gone through such traumatic experience. Also, why should the woman who is raped commit suicide?? She should live to see that justice is done to her through the legal ways.

me too surprised with Devayani's post? :blink:

then where should she go, Devayani?
is it her fault?

I think what she is trying to say is that a woman who is raped should not leave the culprit just like that and come back home. But the truth is Devyani that we are physically not stronger than men (generally) and this is why mostly women are overpowered in such incidents.

Friends I have many a times suggested girls to atleast learn defensive techniques and eat healthy food. If you can't fight then atleast you can run. Women should some how learn to escape. In adverse situations nobody will come front to help us, not even a lady. It depends on luck and your presence of mind. Admiting to the rapist is worst thing. Man can be coward but woman are not so.

I want to write few more points with this. I remember I have many a times mentioned them before.
It is not at all necessary to look beautiful. Prestige and honour is more important. If a woman looks ugly, nobody will feel interest in her. If she wears sexy or beautiful dress, it draws attention of many people. Makeup and dressing style should be according to place and situation and not according to out whim.

Friends I have many a times suggested girls to atleast learn defensive techniques and eat healthy food. If you can't fight then atleast you can run. Women should some how learn to escape. In adverse situations nobody will come front to help us, not even a lady. It depends on luck and your presence of mind. Admiting to the rapist is worst thing. Man can be coward but woman are not so.

Thank you Devu for your lovely post :) :)

Now only I understood the real meaning of your post. :)