Politeness is often seen as weakness these days!

The people who are polite are often bullied by people but this is not the case always. There will always be some miscreants who would try to take an undue advantage of your politeness but it all depends on you how you handle a situation in adversity.

That is right up to some extent but you can prove them wrong with your strong character and making them understand that you are not the one who can be treated that way and taken lying down. They can treat you considering you weak once or twice but not for ever if you know how to deal with them.

I am polite and calm only. Till now no one treated badly. I think it is our strength only and people also respect it more.

Politeness is good but too much of politeness is harmful for us these days.So we have to be bold and desperate to fight with these world and its people.

I have seen people who are calm and polite are often treated badly by people and are thought to be weaker than others :evil: but being polite does not mean that a person is weak. What's your thought about it?. :blink:

One should not bother about people who dont appreciate you, but those who realise peoples true worth will always appreciate and have regard and know that they are not weak but being well mannered .The less we bother about people the better,also being firm at times helps ... :)

I have experience that days after days, number of uncultured and less educated people are increasing in our society and neighbour. They don't know how to talk and behave. They think polite people are coward and weak. Thus they misbehave and try to dictate others. Therefore me and my family keep ourself aloof from others.

Politeness with clear message of firm resolve and action most effective. Iro hand in velvet gloves should be the ideal. Once some bandits robbed a restaurant. The leader said- ladies and gentlemen Those in favor of leaving alive may kindly put all their belongs before me and stand quietly in the corner.

Politeness with clear message of firm resolve and action most effective. Iro hand in velvet gloves should be the ideal. Once some bandits robbed a restaurant. The leader said- ladies and gentlemen Those in favor of leaving alive may kindly put all their belongs before me and stand quietly in the corner.

I hope most of them obliged being called 'ladies and gentlemen' :laugh:

Politeness with clear message of firm resolve and action most effective. Iro hand in velvet gloves should be the ideal. Once some bandits robbed a restaurant. The leader said- ladies and gentlemen Those in favor of leaving alive may kindly put all their belongs before me and stand quietly in the corner.

That is a very good example of being polite and strong at the same time. :)

Politeness with clear message of firm resolve and action most effective. Iro hand in velvet gloves should be the ideal. Once some bandits robbed a restaurant. The leader said- ladies and gentlemen Those in favor of leaving alive may kindly put all their belongs before me and stand quietly in the corner.

That is a very good example of being polite and strong at the same time. :)

This is also an example of being a rogue in action and gentle in talk. Just contrast Shakaal (Kulbhushan Kharbanda) of 'Shaan' with Gabbar Singh ( Amjad Khan) of Sholay.

I have seen people who are calm and polite are often treated badly by people and are thought to be weaker than others :evil: but being polite does not mean that a person is weak. What's your thought about it?. :blink:

Let us group people into two categories..... cunning and selfish people who knows well how to exploit others for their own benefits. Second group is just opposite.

I think polite behaviour is best to deal with second group...not the first group. They will always get appreciation, respect and love in return. But we behave so before cunning people, we may get cheated, because they know well how to use these people. (best example is politicians :P ).

So, be polite to persons who truly values you......otherwise you may be exploited for their benefits. Read a person's character before dealing with him :evil:

Now a days people have to be very bold and straight forward.If we are too much polite and think ourselves to be a shy one we are the loser.

Now a days people have to be very bold and straight forward.If we are too much polite and think ourselves to be a shy one we are the loser.

How can politeness related to shyness? :blink: :blink:
Both are entirely different factors. I think so

Yes this is common thing as bad is growing like a tree these days. No one is caring of these persons.