A couple of years back I watched a movie. A couple going for a counseling when they quarrel each other. The counselor says, "Even if you quarrel each other and say, love not exist between us now, it's not at all possible. An invisible bond always exist between husband and wife even if they are separated. "
Now we are living in an era where divorce is not uncommon. Daily, 1000 couples are separating and day by day, the percentage is increasing :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: . So, it's a relevant question in present era.
If so, what's your opinion? Is the counselor right? Or do you think, at least in a few cases, that invisible bond never exists???? :whistle: :whistle: :whistle:
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I agree with the counselor. An invisible bond exists even when you quarrel. Quarrel is also part of love. Often, feeling of love is intensified after separation. I remember a song in old movie 'AAN'
Tere kho jane ke baad teri yaad ayee (I miss you after you vanished)
But sir, what's your opinion for divorced couples??/
I agree with the counselor. An invisible bond exists even when you quarrel. Quarrel is also part of love. Often, feeling of love is intensified after separation. I remember a song in old movie 'AAN'
Tere kho jane ke baad teri yaad ayee (I miss you after you vanished)
But sir, what's your opinion for divorced couples??/
Same. But here ego, often false, also works. Many even repent after divorce and remember the divorced spouse. But they do not acknowledge this owing to vanity. They even try to forget the divorced spouse but fail . Jinhe ham bhoolne chahen voh aksar yaad aate hain (Whom I wish to forget often comes to my mind)
Counsellor is right. Invisible bond or unknown attraction always keep them remember each other. This is very strong in case of first relationship. We all say love happens once in life which person cannot forget easily. It is the reason behind it. Regarding the 2nd or 3rd marriage and divorce, I would say they are fools and joking with each other.
I agree with the counselor. An invisible bond exists even when you quarrel. Quarrel is also part of love. Often, feeling of love is intensified after separation. I remember a song in old movie 'AAN'
Tere kho jane ke baad teri yaad ayee (I miss you after you vanished)
But sir, what's your opinion for divorced couples??/
Same. But here ego, often false, also works. Many even repent after divorce and remember the divorced spouse. But they do not acknowledge this owing to vanity. They even try to forget the divorced spouse but fail . Jinhe ham bhoolne chahen voh aksar yaad aate hain (Whom I wish to forget often comes to my mind)
That's why when 100's of couples are separating every day, their parents advice them not to do so. I feel, people, A generation back know/understand it better than new generations. So, break up rates also very low,
I agree with the counselor. An invisible bond exists even when you quarrel. Quarrel is also part of love. Often, feeling of love is intensified after separation. I remember a song in old movie 'AAN'
Tere kho jane ke baad teri yaad ayee (I miss you after you vanished)
But sir, what's your opinion for divorced couples??/
Same. But here ego, often false, also works. Many even repent after divorce and remember the divorced spouse. But they do not acknowledge this owing to vanity. They even try to forget the divorced spouse but fail . Jinhe ham bhoolne chahen voh aksar yaad aate hain (Whom I wish to forget often comes to my mind)
That's why when 100's of couples are separating every day, their parents advice them not to do so. I feel, people, A generation back know/understand it better than new generations. So, break up rates also very low,
The couples separating are still a very small portion of total married population. But they are in news more. This is because their conduct is not normal. Such couples also divorce in hurry, repent at leisure and deny coming together out of sheer vanity and false ego.
Yes there will be a in visible bond between husband and wife. We can see many people who had taken divorce are again living with together for example we can say hero prabudevas life.
So, prabhu deva is living with his ex-wife :silly:
Really interesting!!!! :blink: :blink: :blink: :sick: :whistle: :evil: :evil:
This is truth Quarrels and fights are also part of our lives and we cannot say that there does not exist a bond though we fight with each other. :)
Is it applicable for couples only or friends too? What's your opinion?
Applicable any where even in the bond of friendship also we fight and quarrel and after sometime we forget the past and again become friends. :)
This is truth Quarrels and fights are also part of our lives and we cannot say that there does not exist a bond though we fight with each other. :)
Is it applicable for couples only or friends too? What's your opinion?
Rather than friends and lover there are many relationships. Problem may crop up in any form. Many people ignore parents feelings and give importance to lover and friends. I keep my self away from them as they are not at all wise.
Invisible bond lies between parents and children also. It also lies between co-borns.
This is truth Quarrels and fights are also part of our lives and we cannot say that there does not exist a bond though we fight with each other. :)
Is it applicable for couples only or friends too? What's your opinion?
Rather than friends and lover there are many relationships. Problem may crop up in any form. Many people ignore parents feelings and give importance to lover and friends. I keep my self away from them as they are not at all wise.
Invisible bond lies between parents and children also. It also lies between co-borns.
It depends on person to person which relationship they give importance.No doubt parents child relationship is important and also have some invisible bond which we must take care of. :)
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