When do we reveal our secrets to others???????

I have reveled my secrets to my few sisters and some friends as well.

Secret is the fact that one should not reveal. If he reveals, he may be in trouble. But many times, one is uneasy with secrets and so he wants to share these with some one.

Also secret desires may require revelation. There are some secrets that must be shared. A gang of thieves must share the secret of theft among themselves. A family may have some secrets. But one cannot hide from spouse.

It may happen that a secret is revealed only to a few. But some of them may leak the secret.

Secrets are confidential and if revealed, can't be restored. So, we must think 1000 times before revealing such facts, which may harm us in future.

Sometimes, if we feel a friend/person is faithful, we may reveal it. Also, a sudden friendship with a person can also result in revealing of many facts. Sometimes, we may be benefited....because, some of them may be annoying problems which we can't find solutions, but another person can. Sometimes, for this reason only....the hope of finding solutions...we may reveal secrets to another person :evil: :evil: :pinch:

secret is secret and should not be revealed .Which can not be shared with any if you share then he or she may blackmailed you.

secret is secret and should not be revealed .Which can not be shared with any if you share then he or she may blackmailed you.

Good. Always remember that :P :P :P :P :P :evil: :evil:

This is not a really good idea of revealing of secrets to others as they may black mail us with this one.

This is not a really good idea of revealing of secrets to others as they may black mail us with this one.

But not all :)

Those who are married, i would like to ask that even you don't share secrets with your husband/wife?

Yes there will be some secrets for each and every one that which we cannot share to wives also.

Secret remain no secret once it is revealed. :blink:

Its more of a repenting afterwards than to get success. :blink: I don't reveal my secrets to any one.I know if we reveal it to someone we may think our close in emotion but that may be used as a weapon against us by that person in future. :blink:

Yes there will be some secrets for each and every one that which we cannot share to wives also.

Why? you are going to live with our wife, for whole our life.So, i think she should know everything about you.

When we talk of secrets, we should differentiate between their types. The secrets are generally group secrets. These have to be shared in the group. Even the top military secrets have to be shared among the top generals. Budget proposals are secret but these are shared between Finance Minister, Finance Secretary and other officers. You have may have some secrets about your disease. But this is to be revealed to your doctor. You have to disclose your property or income secrets to your advocate and Income Tax Department. Nothing is absolutely secret. You need only keep secret from unrelated persons.

When we talk of secrets, we should differentiate between their types. The secrets are generally group secrets. These have to be shared in the group. Even the top military secrets have to be shared among the top generals. Budget proposals are secret but these are shared between Finance Minister, Finance Secretary and other officers. You have may have some secrets about your disease. But this is to be revealed to your doctor. You have to disclose your property or income secrets to your advocate and Income Tax Department. Nothing is absolutely secret. You need only keep secret from unrelated persons.[/quote]

I really liked this last 2 sentences. Thank you sir for sharing such a wonderful definition of 'secret' :)

According to me We cannot show our Secrets and personal activities to other.wait for a perfect time....................

According to me, secrets should not be revealed to anyone unless its matter of life and death, forgive the cliche! Also, where it comes to sharing everything between a husband and a wife, agreed that there should be no secrets, but if there is a sort of secret that would threaten their relationship in some damaging manner, then the secret should remain a secret!

According to me We cannot show our Secrets and personal activities to other.wait for a perfect time....................

And that pefect time could be the worst for us so we may not reveal anyhting to anyone which may cause harm to us in the future. :blink:

According to me We cannot show our Secrets and personal activities to other.wait for a perfect time....................

And that pefect time could be the worst for us so we may not reveal anyhting to anyone which may cause harm to us in the future. :blink:

I discuss about the perfect time and this cannot be bad for us.If this is bad for us then it is a mistake by you to choose such perfect time............... :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

According to me We cannot show our Secrets and personal activities to other.wait for a perfect time....................

And that pefect time could be the worst for us so we may not reveal anyhting to anyone which may cause harm to us in the future. :blink:

I discuss about the perfect time and this cannot be bad for us.If this is bad for us then it is a mistake by you to choose such perfect time............... :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Good or bad..decisions are our own. So, we can't blame anyone. isn't it?

According to me We cannot show our Secrets and personal activities to other.wait for a perfect time....................

And that pefect time could be the worst for us so we may not reveal anyhting to anyone which may cause harm to us in the future. :blink:

I discuss about the perfect time and this cannot be bad for us.If this is bad for us then it is a mistake by you to choose such perfect time............... :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

I don't really understand what you mean to say!! What is a perfect time?? If the secret is damaging enough, then there is no such thing as perfect time! Or even if it does not mean much, again what's timing going to make any difference?

According to me We cannot show our Secrets and personal activities to other.wait for a perfect time....................

And that pefect time could be the worst for us so we may not reveal anyhting to anyone which may cause harm to us in the future. :blink:

I discuss about the perfect time and this cannot be bad for us.If this is bad for us then it is a mistake by you to choose such perfect time............... :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry: :angry:

Good or bad..decisions are our own. So, we can't blame anyone. isn't it?

secret is secret and should not revealed.