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Suppose a person used to listen always claps and praising about him / herself but suddenly if those claps and praising are replaced with bad words of scolding then how that person feel?

If you are the person then what you feel and what you will do?

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U
It will definitely hurt me if it happens to me. :blink:

But theoritically it is wrong one must learn to take scoldings also in a manner he/she takes appreciation. :blink:
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U
Obviously, such sudden change will annoy. If someone does this to me, I shall try to find out what us wring either with him or me.
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U
This type of experiences i had already Experienced and this makes me more angry towards that person.

I have a tendancy to calm myself,but those occurances can't be washed from our mind.
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U
if i experience such situation, then will become away from the contact of such people and i will train myself and i will reach such a position that they will feel why they scolded such a great person and they will try to contact me
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U
Even we fraustrated if that person is seen again in front of us.
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U
Even though such actions might be quite hurtful and irritating, we should think and try to find out why that person has suddenly changed his/her behavior? After all a person who had habitually been attentive and praising us must surely have cared for us!
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U
Some times such situation leads to death also. People become depressed and they commit or kill themselves
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U
I feel alot but I think that time why he scolded me.
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U
yes even i also think about it and what mistake i have done. If it is my mistake then no problem but without my mistake if that person scold, i will show how talented am i and what i can do
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U
Sarala I have already faced this situation. I will feel bad. I would think whether I have really done mistake or not. If not, I will start avoiding that person.
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U
Devyani if there are many number of people not one person then what you will do?
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Suppose a person used to listen always claps and praising about him / herself but suddenly if those claps and praising are replaced with bad words of scolding then how that person feel?

If you are the person then what you feel and what you will do?


First and foremost I will try to analyse why it happened? and what had I done to deserve such a treatment .One must remember that in life there is no reaction without an action..
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U
I think avoiding may be the best solution for it and they will leave to talk bad words.
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U
I will think of that persons why they did for me and teach them a lesson in my style.
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Suppose a person used to listen always claps and praising about him / herself but suddenly if those claps and praising are replaced with bad words of scolding then how that person feel?

If you are the person then what you feel and what you will do?


First and foremost I will try to analyse why it happened? and what had I done to deserve such a treatment .One must remember that in life there is no reaction without an action..


Exactly. I too believe that before breaking all relationship, we need to think and analyze properly the situation that lead to scolding. Not only whether we deserve it or not but also under what situation that person had scolded us!
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Suppose a person used to listen always claps and praising about him / herself but suddenly if those claps and praising are replaced with bad words of scolding then how that person feel?

If you are the person then what you feel and what you will do?


First and foremost I will try to analyse why it happened? and what had I done to deserve such a treatment .One must remember that in life there is no reaction without an action..


Exactly. I too believe that before breaking all relationship, we need to think and analyze properly the situation that lead to scolding. Not only whether we deserve it or not but also under what situation that person had scolded us!


Many a times it could be our own fault or if it is because of some other reason and you feel confident that you dont deserve such treatment one should simply ignore the whole thing and move on,think that it is simply not worth bothering about ...
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Suppose a person used to listen always claps and praising about him / herself but suddenly if those claps and praising are replaced with bad words of scolding then how that person feel?

If you are the person then what you feel and what you will do?


A change from claps to scoldings must be having a reason. Nothing happens without a reason. So i explore the reason
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U
I think both do have a reason and sometimes people combine both but we may not know it. Like internally they have bad feeling on the person but externally they behave as if they like us.. they clap for us by scolding inside...
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U
Well said Ramababu ji, there will be some reason for claps changing into scoldings.
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U
We are all humans and suppose to make mistakes. So, I will try to understand the mistake i did, if any.
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