Possessiveness..... Is it real love or something else???

Possessiveness results from love. You are not possessive of any thing- animate or inanimate- unless you love. Excess of everything is bad. So, there should be moderation in love and consequent possessiveness.

Sometimes, possessiveness makes us feel good. Sometimes a bit irritating too...Isn't it?

Possessiveness results from love. You are not possessive of any thing- animate or inanimate- unless you love. Excess of everything is bad. So, there should be moderation in love and consequent possessiveness.

Are you sure, possessiveness results from love one?
If so, why over-possessive people is often willing to kill other person in madness? :whistle:

i totally agree with gulshan ji.possessiveness results from love only.but over-possessiveness turns it into hatred for both persons.

i feel, love stands on understanding, though the possessiveness is there but some limit it should be. if it go beyond limit then it will worsen the situation.

i feel, love stands on understanding, though the possessiveness is there but some limit it should be. if it go beyond limit then it will worsen the situation.

Possessive persons will become more jealous in love.....isn't it?
They can't even see other persons loving their dearest one

yes, exactly, I know a lady who is a Hr where i used to work. she has cousin, and this lady likes me alot and treats me as her sis and even friend. whenever Hr calls me her cousin becomes so jealous that she quarrels with hr and say not to talk to me. that was the first time i saw a person being over possessiveness. So from then hr used to meet me and come to my home and call me secretly.

No we cannot tell that other persons is loving or not. It is their own interest.

sasi can you please explain about your reply and how it is related here

Sarala if we love a person it is our interest but there is no rule they must love us.

Possessiveness has nothing to do with real love and should be considered as a psychological disorder!

Possessiveness has nothing to do with real love and should be considered as a psychological disorder!

I agree with it....
Not only a loving husband/wife but a non-loving selfish spouse can also show possessiveness. Isn't it?

Possessiveness on the part of either spoils a healthy relationship particularly when it turns into a chronic suspicion!

Sometimes, possessiveness is good. When we feel someone loves us so much and cares us in each and everything, we really enjoy it. But, for everything there should be a limit