Is it necessary that there has to be a certain age difference to make a marriage or relationship successful ? especially where girls age is concerned .. I came across an incident where a young boy having gone to see a girl on the recommendations of relatives, liked her older sister who is older than him by 3 years and the parents on both sides got angry...According to him, when he spoke to her , he found that they had many things in common and he liked her personality and attitude...
personally, i dont see anything wrong with this..
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yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
No doubt that things have changed for the better ,but we still have a long way to go.Most earning wives are answerable to their hubbies and have no real freedom to take any decisions regarding their income..
yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
No doubt that things have changed for the better ,but we still have a long way to go.Most earning wives are answerable to their hubbies and have no real freedom to take any decisions regarding their income..
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
No doubt that things have changed for the better ,but we still have a long way to go.Most earning wives are answerable to their hubbies and have no real freedom to take any decisions regarding their income..
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
Not quite so sandhya ! depends on many things.I know of women who are working and since it is needed, have their mother in laws staying with them at home and have to give their pay package to the m in law who decides what to do with the money. This really is a hope less situation, I feel it is better not to work, but stay home and do something from home..
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
Not quite so sandhya ! depends on many things.I know of women who are working and since it is needed, have their mother in laws staying with them at home and have to give their pay package to the m in law who decides what to do with the money. This really is a hope less situation, I feel it is better not to work, but stay home and do something from home..
Ya, it's the other side of the same coin!!!!
Yet, I won't agree with the last sentence....if they have the opportunity to work outside, definitely they should do. :)
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
Not quite so sandhya ! depends on many things.I know of women who are working and since it is needed, have their mother in laws staying with them at home and have to give their pay package to the m in law who decides what to do with the money. This really is a hope less situation, I feel it is better not to work, but stay home and do something from home..
Ya, it's the other side of the same coin!!!!
Yet, I won't agree with the last sentence....if they have the opportunity to work outside, definitely they should do. :)
depends on the situation ! If you have no freedom of any sort, it serves no purpose except that you are able to go out ..
yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
No doubt that things have changed for the better ,but we still have a long way to go.Most earning wives are answerable to their hubbies and have no real freedom to take any decisions regarding their income..
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
Not quite so sandhya ! depends on many things.I know of women who are working and since it is needed, have their mother in laws staying with them at home and have to give their pay package to the m in law who decides what to do with the money. This really is a hope less situation, I feel it is better not to work, but stay home and do something from home..
Not so in every case UshaG- My daughter is a working woman with a one year old boy with a MS degree from BITS Pilani she works as project manger in an Australian company with a thick pay-pack. She acts according to her own wish, of course she is part of the family, only daughter in law and she owns every thing from both sides as only daughter as well.
yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
No doubt that things have changed for the better ,but we still have a long way to go.Most earning wives are answerable to their hubbies and have no real freedom to take any decisions regarding their income..
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
Not quite so sandhya ! depends on many things.I know of women who are working and since it is needed, have their mother in laws staying with them at home and have to give their pay package to the m in law who decides what to do with the money. This really is a hope less situation, I feel it is better not to work, but stay home and do something from home..
Not so in every case UshaG- My daughter is a working woman with a one year old boy with a MS degree from BITS Pilani she works as project manger in an Australian company with a thick pay-pack. She acts according to her own wish, of course she is part of the family, only daughter in law and she owns every thing from both sides as only daughter as well.
I am talking about the vast majority of women like the bank emlployees,teachers and ladies working at a basic level coming from traditional backgrounds.I see many of them having little or no financial freedom.A couple of my colleagues hesitate to go even to the canteen during lunch break, calling their husbands to get permission..
The right as difference for partners is from 1 to 5 years. It is better and good to have one year different to become a best couple
The point I am trying to make is that age does not matter in a relationship or in a marriage , what matters most is the level of compatibility of the couple..
yes, before i mean earlier people have some morals and they used to go according to them and respect marriage relation but now people stopped respecting marriage relation especially if the age difference is more. So choosing right partner with correct is important for present days marriages
Earlier, husband was considered as a protector as woman won't earn and she stays at home. Now she earns and so, she just want a good friend in her husband to share everything!!!
No doubt that things have changed for the better ,but we still have a long way to go.Most earning wives are answerable to their hubbies and have no real freedom to take any decisions regarding their income..
I think women themselves are responsible for this :evil: :evil: :evil:
Not quite so sandhya ! depends on many things.I know of women who are working and since it is needed, have their mother in laws staying with them at home and have to give their pay package to the m in law who decides what to do with the money. This really is a hope less situation, I feel it is better not to work, but stay home and do something from home..
Not so in every case UshaG- My daughter is a working woman with a one year old boy with a MS degree from BITS Pilani she works as project manger in an Australian company with a thick pay-pack. She acts according to her own wish, of course she is part of the family, only daughter in law and she owns every thing from both sides as only daughter as well.
I am talking about the vast majority of women like the bank emlployees,teachers and ladies working at a basic level coming from traditional backgrounds.I see many of them having little or no financial freedom.A couple of my colleagues hesitate to go even to the canteen during lunch break, calling their husbands to get permission..
In many areas, women are yet to move forward...it's applicable for both well-educated and illiterate females :huh: :huh:
I think this totally depends on partners and their comfort level. There are pars who are happy despite all the age differences.
Thats very true, I know of a couple who have a age difference of 7 years, the lady being older and they are very happy and have been married for more than 13 years now, but sadly have no children, recently they adopted a girl after a long struggle with the concerned departments.Adopting a child in India is not at all easy ! :dry:
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