Jealousy towards same sex!!!!

[quote]Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
I wonder whether my comments lead to this thread?????


Why do you think so?

I was just posting a reply to another jealous thread. Due to power failure, I couldn't send it. Later I thought, why can't I start it as a new thread, as 1000's of my replies are still lying here waiting for replies, unnoticed!!!! So, I started as a new thread.
Come on Kalyani....give an answer!

Hey come on Sandhya, its obvious isn't it that you floated this thread just when this incident about karmas happened!!! :blink:

Anyway, I don't really feel it is right, jealousy is a feeling that affects one and all, men, women and children alike! In fact in children it is more![/quote]


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Everyone sees what he carries in his mind!!!!! :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

Am asking.....is it more between two women or two men? :evil: :evil: :evil:

I too feel intrigued by the timing of floating this thread!
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i have no idea about this.why it not came in my mind??do i have one?? :unsure: :unsure:

Jealousy is more in between women only compare to men.
But all men are not jealous and all women are not jealous

I too feel intrigued by the timing of floating this thread!
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i have no idea about this.why it not came in my mind??do i have one?? :unsure: :unsure:

Only they know!!!! :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh: :huh:

Jealousy is more in between women only compare to men.
But all men are not jealous and all women are not jealous

you cant say its more in women.jealousy took birth because of insecurity and now a days its like equal in both men and women.i have many instances in which i saw this.its just that women's jealousy gives result to more superiority or cunningness and men can lead to violence.

[quote]Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
I wonder whether my comments lead to this thread?????


Why do you think so?

I was just posting a reply to another jealous thread. Due to power failure, I couldn't send it. Later I thought, why can't I start it as a new thread, as 1000's of my replies are still lying here waiting for replies, unnoticed!!!! So, I started as a new thread.
Come on Kalyani....give an answer!

Hey come on Sandhya, its obvious isn't it that you floated this thread just when this incident about karmas happened!!! :blink:

Anyway, I don't really feel it is right, jealousy is a feeling that affects one and all, men, women and children alike! In fact in children it is more!

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Everyone sees what he carries in his mind!!!!! :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

Am asking.....is it more between two women or two men? :evil: :evil: :evil:[/quote]

It is never a general thing that can describe all women to be jealous of other women! It is really a matter of a lot of factors and not gender!

[quote]Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
I wonder whether my comments lead to this thread?????


Why do you think so?

I was just posting a reply to another jealous thread. Due to power failure, I couldn't send it. Later I thought, why can't I start it as a new thread, as 1000's of my replies are still lying here waiting for replies, unnoticed!!!! So, I started as a new thread.
Come on Kalyani....give an answer!

Hey come on Sandhya, its obvious isn't it that you floated this thread just when this incident about karmas happened!!! :blink:

Anyway, I don't really feel it is right, jealousy is a feeling that affects one and all, men, women and children alike! In fact in children it is more!

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Everyone sees what he carries in his mind!!!!! :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

Am asking.....is it more between two women or two men? :evil: :evil: :evil:

It is never a general thing that can describe all women to be jealous of other women! It is really a matter of a lot of factors and not gender![/quote]

Yet I feel...generally, men don't feel jealous with women. He is often jealous with his friends and co-workers, relatives etc.
Ladies are jealous if they see girls more beautiful than them, their dress, make up etc.......also the next door women....than her husband. Isn't it? Why is it so?

Is it because, in a few occasions only women are decorating higher positions than men....that also as their age progress. If juniors(men) are younger than her, no problem. But if she is younger, sure, men will feel jealous.

yes you are right sandhya, jealousy is much between women only compare to men. Women feel jealousy in every thing. If a women purchase a gold ornamanet then the other women feel jealousy, if a women has good husband then the other women feel jealousy, if a women is earning more money the other women feel jealousy and in many more they feel jealousy.

I will give you one more example:
Take mother in law and daughter in law.
If daughter in law prepare a very tasty food and her husband who is the son of mother in law praises his wife who is a daughter in law. then the mother feel jealousy and she tries to spoil the food which the daughter in law prepare for her husband who is son of mother in law.

Jealousy make only gap and we should be proud on others creativity and success.

yes you are right sandhya, jealousy is much between women only compare to men. Women feel jealousy in every thing. If a women purchase a gold ornamanet then the other women feel jealousy, if a women has good husband then the other women feel jealousy, if a women is earning more money the other women feel jealousy and in many more they feel jealousy.

I will give you one more example:
Take mother in law and daughter in law.
If daughter in law prepare a very tasty food and her husband who is the son of mother in law praises his wife who is a daughter in law. then the mother feel jealousy and she tries to spoil the food which the daughter in law prepare for her husband who is son of mother in law.

I now remember a Malayalam proverb..
"Two women can't stay/rule (in ) the same kitchen at the same time" :woohoo:

yes, absolutely,

In telugu we have a proverb "Nari Nariki satruvu".

But sandhya this does not applicable for me. I don't know why, i never behave like the jealousy women.

If i see any lady with good and ornament. I feel like looking and i never feel jealousy i feel ok when i get enough money i will purchase these kind, that it.

In the same manner in every aspect.

Even let us take the above example which i have given
Suppose if am in the mother positon. I feel ok the daughter in law is taking care of my son and prepare good tasty food for him. My son is happy so i am happy. I dont need anything. If possible i will make her learn more dishes to prepare in tasty manner.

suppose if i am in the daughter in law place. I first study the mother in law's nature. if she is good as i expect no problem or else I will ask my husband not to praise my dish in front of her. Just tell him to say it is ok but not much good only my mothers dish is tasty. then the mother in law will more happy and her ego will satisfy.

I feel why remaining women won't think like me. Why they feel much jealousy

I think, competitions are bringing forward jealousy. Isn't it?
Everyone is thinking about written exams or a sports game only. No one thinks about competitions of mind!!

It is natural and a human tendancy of hating the person.This can be developed within brothers,sisters,friends and many more.

Having jealousy in exams and sports is a general thing but jealousy in relation ships is not at all correct

Yes, only sportsman spirit.
It's sure, jealousy is not at all a healthy thing and we should never promote it by any means

Yes, only sportsman spirit.
It's sure, jealousy is not at all a healthy thing and we should never promote it by any means

Jealousy will create more and more gaps between two people. Its better to convert that jealousy into love.
Everyone should do this.

Why should any one feel jealous for any one and gender has nothing to do with that. A healthy competition is some thing that is considerable.

In this world everyone are jealous of other person. some times it may be with same sex or opposite. But we notice only same one mostly

This is common in human beings as well as animals. This is called ego.

Bruce lee ji, ego is different from jealousy. Both of them are not same