Is divorce a solution?

I have quoted in another thread about my dearest friend who lived with her husband just for 1 month. Still now, I don't feel she is right.
Divorces are Ok, if relations given a lot of time....yet solutions can't be made!!!

We should never break relations in a sudden decision

Look, divorce can be a solution and also a problem. It all depends on the complexities of a marital relationship. Divorce on flimsy and frivolous grounds are best avoided!

Sudden decisions are always bad and we realize it afterwards may be those who take decision in haste particularly in relationship repent for it future :blink: .I always suggest people to try out to resolve problems as there are more problems people face when they are newly married as its not that easy to adapt as per someone else nature it takes time for people to understand new people. :)

No in my point of view divorce is not a solution we first try to handle the situation and at last moment we try to save it.

At first all relations are sweet as sugar. This means they are able to accept each other. As time passes by what happens???
It means....if there is a will....
So, if a bond was strong enough at first, sure, it can be carried out till end. Isn't it?

At first all relations are sweet as sugar. This means they are able to accept each other. As time passes by what happens???
It means....if there is a will....
So, if a bond was strong enough at first, sure, it can be carried out till end. Isn't it?

We should maitain that sweetness throughout the life. And if we are not able to maintain it the relationship becomes a burden. :evil:

Therefore we must try to keep the bond tight and warm by love. :)

Ya sandhya it was true But good time spend in relation really maintain the relation till last.

All people have problems in marriage life so is divorce a only solution to get rid of these problems :evil: .Recently one of my neighbor's daughter got married and with in 5 months she came back home and has been living with her parents from last 6 months.Don't you its too less time she gave to think over the relationship :evil: as now they are on the verge of divorce and there are possibility they will have it in a month or so. :blink: I know when things get worsened heavily one has the option of divorce only but these days people take it as a weapon to get rid of the partner and even don't think of the future of their kids if they have. :evil: What do you say? :blink:

I too feel that youngsters these days have no patience and are not ready to adjust and compromise to a certain extent, this has to be done anywhere in life, not just within a marriage.Divorce can be a solution only when there is a long standing abusive relationship from which there is no hope of finding a amicable solution..

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Never...All people have problems in marriage life so this is not only solution to get rid of problems. :) :) :) :)

Face the problem and win the race...Anger is not a courageous think..

see yaar, patience and adjustments is a real life.. ..Divorce is a western culture...we should not follow that...because We are Great Indians.... :P :P :P :P :P We are living in Maha Bharat....we have to follow our culture...enjoy life..

Ask justice from Lord...not from human court...

Prayer goes up and blessing comes down.. Lord can solve all problems...Trust Your God and leave all problems on his lotus feet.. :) :) :) :)

Worship the Lord always ..its our duty....

The Lord will guide you rest of the part...

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Never...All people have problems in marriage life so this is not only solution to get rid of problems. :) :) :) :)

Face the problem and win the race...Anger is not a courageous think..

see yaar, patience and adjustments is a real life.. ..Divorce is a western culture...we should not follow that...because We are Great Indians.... :P :P :P :P :P We are living in Maha Bharat....we have to follow our culture...enjoy life..

Ask justice from Lord...not from human court...

Prayer goes up and blessing comes down.. Lord can solve all problems...Trust Your God and leave all problems on his lotus feet.. :) :) :) :)

Worship the Lord always ..its our duty....

The Lord will guide you rest of the part...

That is not practical solution, Lord or god or who ever created us has too many things to take care of and not worry about our internal problems as well...When things go drastically wrong sometimes there is no way out but separate and be done with..

Earlier my husband used to say, if anyone of us is not interested in the relationship, it is better to complete that chapter as he believed in European culture earlier. As as years grow, he began to understand the need of a true relationship to remain stern till the end. I was able to make him believe so. :evil: :evil: :evil:

So real credits go to :P :P :P :P :P :P :P :P

Now even if I try to run away, he will tie me somewhere :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

Ya sandhya After all you want your husband like this so its pros and cons are for you only.......

:) :) :) :)

Never...All people have problems in marriage life so this is not only solution to get rid of problems. :) :) :) :)

Face the problem and win the race...Anger is not a courageous think..

see yaar, patience and adjustments is a real life.. ..Divorce is a western culture...we should not follow that...because We are Great Indians.... :P :P :P :P :P We are living in Maha Bharat....we have to follow our culture...enjoy life..

Ask justice from Lord...not from human court...

Prayer goes up and blessing comes down.. Lord can solve all problems...Trust Your God and leave all problems on his lotus feet.. :) :) :) :)

Worship the Lord always ..its our duty....

The Lord will guide you rest of the part...

That is not practical solution, Lord or god or who ever created us has too many things to take care of and not worry about our internal problems as well...When things go drastically wrong sometimes there is no way out but separate and be done with..

True... :) :) :) :)

but trust is beginning..... :)

Ya Mathi the first thing in every aspect of life is trust but we have to continue it for longer period.

Divorce may be the last solution but before that we should try to keep the relation.But not losing the humanity and self respect.

At last moment we try to save our relationship because we give so much time to our relation and how easily we break it easily.

Divorce may be the last solution but before that we should try to keep the relation.But not losing the humanity and self respect.

Absolutely divorce is the last solution when couple see no hope to save relationship they should go for it but these days i think youngsters lost patience and go for it without giving much time to dwell. :)

Ya youngester really not keep patience but there elders have to teach him/her lesson.

Ya youngester really not keep patience but there elders have to teach him/her lesson.

But sometimes their elder too get failed to teach them. :laugh: :evil:

I have heard alot of divorce cases who took divorce for silly things.

1) Wife gave divorce as husband is snoring.
2) wife don't like onions and husband love to eat. so she gave divorce.
3)Husband cheated wife and her family saying that he is working in good company but he didnt yet completed his studies , he is failed in many subjects. So wife gave divorce.

like this alot of cases