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Is divorce a solution?

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All people have problems in marriage life so is divorce a only solution to get rid of these problems :evil: .Recently one of my neighbor's daughter got married and with in 5 months she came back home and has been living with her parents from last 6 months.Don't you its too less time she gave to think over the relationship :evil: as now they are on the verge of divorce and there are possibility they will have it in a month or so. :blink: I know when things get worsened heavily one has the option of divorce only but these days people take it as a weapon to get rid of the partner and even don't think of the future of their kids if they have. :evil: What do you say? :blink:

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I have heard alot of divorce cases who took divorce for silly things.

1) Wife gave divorce as husband is snoring.
2) wife don't like onions and husband love to eat. so she gave divorce.
3)Husband cheated wife and her family saying that he is working in good company but he didnt yet completed his studies , he is failed in many subjects. So wife gave divorce.

like this alot of cases


Yes people take marriages like a game that they used to play in the childhood. :evil:
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Very often..relations form and break due to minor reasons!!! Sometimes no reason at all!!!
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YA sometime a small reasons take a big form and will be responsible for divorce.
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Very often..relations form and break due to minor reasons!!! Sometimes no reason at all!!!


But once they break without a reason that is silly and one repent for it in future. :blink:
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Ya sanjeev when they realize that mistake is small at that time they feel ashamed on hmself/herself.
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Ya sanjeev when they realize that mistake is small at that time they feel ashamed on hmself/herself.


But this is not good one must rethink before taking some big decisions. :)
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At the time of taking decision they are not thinking about there future and after some day when he/she realize then no option was left in front of them....
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I think if there is any problem then divorce is good solution but if there are childrens then divorce is harmful.
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:) :) :) :)

Never...All people have problems in marriage life so this is not only solution to get rid of problems. :) :) :) :)

Face the problem and win the race...Anger is not a courageous think..

see yaar, patience and adjustments is a real life.. ..Divorce is a western culture...we should not follow that...because We are Great Indians.... :P :P :P :P :P We are living in Maha Bharat....we have to follow our culture...enjoy life..

Ask justice from Lord...not from human court...

Prayer goes up and blessing comes down.. Lord can solve all problems...Trust Your God and leave all problems on his lotus feet.. :) :) :) :)

Worship the Lord always ..its our duty....

The Lord will guide you rest of the part...


That is not practical solution, Lord or god or who ever created us has too many things to take care of and not worry about our internal problems as well...When things go drastically wrong sometimes there is no way out but separate and be done with..


True... :) :) :) :)

but trust is beginning..... :)


Absolutely ! There are always ups and downs, arguments and disagreements between partners, but in a marriage the two have to grow together for a marriage to be successful. When they start growing apart, there is bound to be trouble, thats why it is important to plan and do things together..
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Arguments between partner help in increasing the loves between them.This thing is also important in marriage life........
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Divorce should be last resort when all efforts to reconcile have failed. Frequent break of marital relations is because of individualistic approach and lack of social responsibility.
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Divorce should be last resort when all efforts to reconcile have failed. Frequent break of marital relations is because of individualistic approach and lack of social responsibility.


It should be the last option but these days people don't wait for so long as they don't have patience. :evil:
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Yes, for silly things people are getting divorced. Mostly divorce cases are in love marriages now a days, because people feel attraction as love marriage and later after marriage they won't have any love between them and they may not adjustable and finally they rush to have divorce
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Yes, for silly things people are getting divorced. Mostly divorce cases are in love marriages now a days, because people feel attraction as love marriage and later after marriage they won't have any love between them and they may not adjustable and finally they rush to have divorce


As soon as its lust ends!!!! :evil: :evil: :evil:

Also, in the romancing period all are able to see good factors only. When they begin to live together, many bad factors are also seen visible which may be not according to expectations. This further lead to problems!!!
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thats what i want to say but could not say directly as you said in these words
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Many factor lead to Divoce.First and most important is Love marriage.Second Forceness of parent.Some parents fix their child marriage in a hurry.They cannot have enough time to know each other.When they know each other then there will be too late........ ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)
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I am not in favor of a divorce unless things go beyond all limits. Some times small matters become too big which can be sorted out with little efforts.
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Many factor lead to Divoce.First and most important is Love marriage.Second Forceness of parent.Some parents fix their child marriage in a hurry.They cannot have enough time to know each other.When they know each other then there will be too late........ ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)


I doubt if statistics say that love marriages are responsible for divorce.Forcing children to marry against their wish definitely can become a valid reason..The basic reason however is lack of understanding and outside pressures to a great extent...
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In most of the cases love Marriages are failure and there are many divorcee in this category.
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Many factor lead to Divoce.First and most important is Love marriage.Second Forceness of parent.Some parents fix their child marriage in a hurry.They cannot have enough time to know each other.When they know each other then there will be too late........ ;) ;) ;) ;) ;) ;)


You mean love marriage in itself can lead to divorce. What about arranged marriages where dowry is also a reason?
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