Expectation from a girl?

Its our culture and tradition that women must know household chores like cooking. Since so many yrs women were treated as home care taker and men as money maker. Hence we humans always expect a women or girl to know all these from the young age.

Why we expect a girl when she becomes 16~18 that she must know cooking and other house hold activities? Is it so that we take it granted that when she will get married she has to do these things why not we expect it from a man? :evil:

Sanjeev,
You missed something.
Parents expect girls to study household before marriage. Nowadays they want girls to study also. Parents have expectations from sons too.....to study well and earn a good job, be a good son to the family. Stand on his legs...so that he can bring a girl to the family. So, I think responsibilities of a boy is more than girls. What do you think???

This is tradition and we can't change it but if someone change it it provide great relief to all the women........hahahahaa

Why we expect a girl when she becomes 16~18 that she must know cooking and other house hold activities? Is it so that we take it granted that when she will get married she has to do these things why not we expect it from a man? :evil:

Sanjeev,
You missed something.
Parents expect girls to study household before marriage. Nowadays they want girls to study also. Parents have expectations from sons too.....to study well and earn a good job, be a good son to the family. Stand on his legs...so that he can bring a girl to the family. So, I think responsibilities of a boy is more than girls. What do you think???

But these days when people don't give much importance for marriage so why not they expect a good job from a girl and to know some house hold work from a boy. :blink:

Why we expect a girl when she becomes 16~18 that she must know cooking and other house hold activities? Is it so that we take it granted that when she will get married she has to do these things why not we expect it from a man? :evil:

Sanjeev,
You missed something.
Parents expect girls to study household before marriage. Nowadays they want girls to study also. Parents have expectations from sons too.....to study well and earn a good job, be a good son to the family. Stand on his legs...so that he can bring a girl to the family. So, I think responsibilities of a boy is more than girls. What do you think???

But these days when people don't give much importance for marriage so why not they expect a good job from a girl and to know some house hold work from a boy. :blink:

Tell me....you have both...a boy and a girl.
How are you going to grow them? You might have a plan about them :evil: :evil:

Actually,girl learning cooking and household work is old tradition which is followed till this modernage. But now boys also learning those and after geting married both boy and girl are sharing the work. so nothing expectations from girl to learn all these. even boys also learning

Ya you are absolutely right sarala this is the tradition of old age and now today men also know cooking and they work together in home........

Why we expect a girl when she becomes 16~18 that she must know cooking and other house hold activities? Is it so that we take it granted that when she will get married she has to do these things why not we expect it from a man? :evil:

Sanjeev,
You missed something.
Parents expect girls to study household before marriage. Nowadays they want girls to study also. Parents have expectations from sons too.....to study well and earn a good job, be a good son to the family. Stand on his legs...so that he can bring a girl to the family. So, I think responsibilities of a boy is more than girls. What do you think???

But these days when people don't give much importance for marriage so why not they expect a good job from a girl and to know some house hold work from a boy. :blink:

Tell me....you have both...a boy and a girl.
How are you going to grow them? You might have a plan about them :evil: :evil:

i don't have a plan yet but i want both of them to be sucessfull in everything they do and a better human being. :)

Now everyone release the important of boys and girls both.We feel happy if any one got Success in their life...............

Traditionally, a girl is expected to be housewife and home manager when she is married. She may get employed and earn as good as man. But she is brought up in a traditional way.

A man may also be good at cooking and home management. But the role of man and woman are defined since centuries. There can be exceptions. Ultimately, it is for a man and his wife to run their household and they may mutually decide each other's responsibility.

Traditionally, a girl is expected to be housewife and home manager when she is married. She may get employed and earn as good as man. But she is brought up in a traditional way.

A man may also be good at cooking and home management. But the role of man and woman are defined since centuries. There can be exceptions. Ultimately, it is for a man and his wife to run their household and they may mutually decide each other's responsibility.

That is what i meant to say that traditionally we have decided the responsibility of a woman and a man but why is it so? Why can't it be vice versa?. :) :blink:

Traditionally, a girl is expected to be housewife and home manager when she is married. She may get employed and earn as good as man. But she is brought up in a traditional way.

A man may also be good at cooking and home management. But the role of man and woman are defined since centuries. There can be exceptions. Ultimately, it is for a man and his wife to run their household and they may mutually decide each other's responsibility.

That is what i meant to say that traditionally we have decided the responsibility of a woman and a man but why is it so? Why can't it be vice versa?. :) :blink:

Today our Society is Dominance By man.man is everywhere.But Condition might Change Slowly.A time come when this become vice Versa........

Now every there is no difference between the gender for any work. But according to our Indian culture parents make their daughter to know all house hold work, though the husband of that girl may know or not.

Yes now a day parents are very anxious about their girls.she has to go other house and there she need to control every activity of house including cooking too........ :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: If she was unable to do that she will be punished.That why they force their daughter to learn Cooking as she grew old..........

But now, I don't think majority of girls learn cooking before marriage.
Gradually she picks up everything

Why we expect a girl when she becomes 16~18 that she must know cooking and other house hold activities? Is it so that we take it granted that when she will get married she has to do these things why not we expect it from a man? :evil:

Sanjeev,
You missed something.
Parents expect girls to study household before marriage. Nowadays they want girls to study also. Parents have expectations from sons too.....to study well and earn a good job, be a good son to the family. Stand on his legs...so that he can bring a girl to the family. So, I think responsibilities of a boy is more than girls. What do you think???

But these days when people don't give much importance for marriage so why not they expect a good job from a girl and to know some house hold work from a boy. :blink:

Tell me....you have both...a boy and a girl.
How are you going to grow them? You might have a plan about them :evil: :evil:

To quote my own example I have 3 children 2 daughters and a son. My son is a great cook, loves experimenting with food and recipes and sometimes cooks for the whole family, but my daughters are taking an interest in cooking only now which is ok...As long as there is harmony and partners are able to adjust it need not be an issue :)

But now, I don't think majority of girls learn cooking before marriage.
Gradually she picks up everything

India is full of middle class family and still all middle class parents try to give all cooking knowledge to their girls.Those who does not learn they are belong High class family........ :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil: :evil:

Why should this question be raised in the first place, why don't we see what is expected of a boy? Or the are made for household jobs? This mentality is responsible for condition of some of the girls, otherwise there should be no difference between the two.

Actually man is strong then women physically so God prefer them to work outside and home work for womens. This is good and safe for women too.

but now a days women also becoming physically strong by learning selfdefence so no problem they can handle any kind of work outside and inside of home