Does it make any difference?

So marriages are giving good responsible citizens to the country. ha ha ha. Isn't it?

This what many believe. If a boy loafs around and is in bad company, parents are advise to marry their son so that he may be reformed. No doubt, marriage is necessary for society. Being unmarried should be an exception and not a wide practice.

So marriages are giving good responsible citizens to the country. ha ha ha. Isn't it?

This what many believe. If a boy loafs around and is in bad company, parents are advise to marry their son so that he may be reformed. No doubt, marriage is necessary for society. Being unmarried should be an exception and not a wide practice.

Yes, I don't believe in forced marriages

yes, there are even forced marriages, though the girl does not like that guy but parents do emotional black mail and they try to convince the girl and make the marriage. but they won't think that what the girl will feel in her whole life.

yes, there are even forced marriages, though the girl does not like that guy but parents do emotional black mail and they try to convince the girl and make the marriage. but they won't think that what the girl will feel in her whole life.

It is applicable for boys too! :sick:

Why should it make any difference, this is a personal choice of an individual. Every one has a right to go according to his own ways.

im not going far in my own house my uncle is not married and he is elder than my father and earlier people used to question about that but now none.

That's right and these question are what with which people get irritated.My cousins are unmarried and they don't go anywhere as whenever they go to some relative's place they start asking questions. :evil:

It can be considered as easy tasks too....as they need not find girls for those boys :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

But they are girls and they are over 50 years of age. They are in to good government job. :)

I am saying about bachelors going to relatives......
They will have girls almost their age. Isn't it?

but what if they are not interseted.. :unsure: :unsure:

Interest is something different.In our society women are understood to be the weaker gender and are required someone who can support her physically for that her own family members insist on that the girl gets married soon. :blink:

May be ..all think, girls will get older sooner. This is also one reason

Its not like that that girl is weaker gender. From childhood itself girl is treated as a soft toy and boy as a statue made of stone. So thats why girl will be weak and boy is strong. If we make a change, and make girl also be strong like boy then there is no need of some to protect a girl.

And coming to marriage,In every one someones support is need, for girl boys support and for girls support. As parents may not be for life long with girl and boy. So they search good partner to the boy or girl. and make their marriage.

With due respect to every one, I do not think that the girl is a weak person now, not any more. She can do whatever she thinks would be best for her.

yes, sunilg you are right. In this modern generation girls have become equally stronger like boys. due to the society and orthodox families girls are treated as weaker gender.

Even if parents consider girls as strong, they fear, what will happen to them when they go to 'sasural', if she behaves as a male child. That's the main reason why parents ask her to be calm, quiet and patient because they are always worried about the kid when she goes to her second home. isn't it?

yes, sunilg you are right. In this modern generation girls have become equally stronger like boys. due to the society and orthodox families girls are treated as weaker gender.

Yes I agree girls in upper class and even middle class are doing far better than boys.

But i feel change must come in the society so that girls also get good value and the crime rate towards girls will be reduce

People in south are very well off if you see that in north that is in too bad condition.

Yes sunil there must be some strict rules and people also must support to government so there wont be any problem for girls.

yes, sunilg you are right. In this modern generation girls have become equally stronger like boys. due to the society and orthodox families girls are treated as weaker gender.

Agreed they are even more stronger than boys mentally but physically they are not which is the reason why they are compulsorily asked to get married. :blink:

It's strictly an individual's domain. If someone is happy being married or unmarried - so be it!

Being unmarried for whole life does it make any difference? :blink:

Yes at least in INDIA if someone decides to remain unmarried or someone does not marry in his/her life society does not see them with respect :evil: .But what is wrong in it as marrying or not marrying whole life is someone's personal choice and others do not have right to interfere in it. :) What do you say? :)

I dont think that these days anybody really cares about what people think and expect us to do.It is a personal choice and if an individual is happy being single then it is upto him or her..Many dont want to get married for different reasons and we have to respect their decision since they know best what they want out of life...I have a cousin who is 42 years old and he is still not married, but of late he is rethinking about it since he feels differently about marriage now...so it is all personal

This is personal choice and none should interfere in this. One has different reasons to marry or not to marry. Once some one decides to marry in later stage, this too is his personal choice, besides 42 is not so late.

Even I used to think not marry and be alone and serve people. but society and parents won't agree so decided to marry some which my parents select