i have faced this situation many times like people giving free advices all time.sometime its good but sometime it becomes irritating.
once i went to a party i was wearing salwar-suit.an aunty came and started saying "tum apna dupatta is tarah se le lo aise accha lagega,arey tum apne hairs khol kyu ni leti dekho aj kal sab ladkiya hairs open krke rehti hai accha bhi lagta hai and so on"
that time i was getting so much irritated.
do you people like to get free fund advices?
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Free advice is good. You may accept or not. But what is 'free fund'? Some are very expert instant advisers. They will give advice on anything- dress, furniture, hair style, medicine and what not. When I am free, these are funny and entertaining. Just yesterday, when I was in my office, somebody advised me to be very careful while crossing road. I thanked him because so far i was very careless.
But when you are very busy, such advice is irritating.
But when you are very busy, such advice is irritating.
[quote]It is equally important to select the persons whom we are turning to for advice!
Yeah!! Otherwise one would end up in a deeper soup if the person doesn't have enough of a knowledge about it!! :woohoo:[/quote]
That's absolutely correct,otherwise you end up getting exactly the opposite you bargain for!
An advice is an advice whether free or paid.I personally never venture into advising one without being called upon to do so!
I agree. I also do not give any advice unless asked for. But I listen to others' advice just out of courtesy even if I do not need one. There are some who feel neglected. They tend to give their advice just to show their importance. I do not mind obliging them with this much. Most of the 'free advisers' are aged or unemployed, who seldom get chance to talk or give advice. No harm keeping them in good huumor.
Yes, free fund advices irritates. some times they are useful and some time they irritate us very badly and increase our problem too.
Actually, if we dislike a person, his advices will irritate us most. If it's given by a loved one, we may take them as "Veda vakyam" (sentence of veda)
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