Marriage without dowry

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How many of you people's marriage have occurred without giving dowry? Let me see at least one person has done an arranged marriage without this evil factor. :dry:
I am influenced from Amir's episode :)

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But i am forced to see some of it as my wife don't leave few of them. :woohoo:
But i am forced to see some of it as my wife don't leave few of them. :woohoo:


We are sailing in the same boat. Wives are like that, you have to adjust.
But i am forced to see some of it as my wife don't leave few of them. :woohoo:


We are sailing in the same boat. Wives are like that, you have to adjust.


hahaha.... :woohoo: .but they should understand that we can't tolerate " Balika Wadhu" or " Punarvivah" every day. :evil:
But i am forced to see some of it as my wife don't leave few of them. :woohoo:


We are sailing in the same boat. Wives are like that, you have to adjust.


hahaha.... :woohoo: .but they should understand that we can't tolerate " Balika Wadhu" or " Punarvivah" every day. :evil:


No, we cant but let them have some fun too. You are doing on computer let them use their TV.
Yes due to these serials only i bought computer and installed internet :woohoo: so that i may use it while she sees the serials and i do that but still sometimes when there is problem with net connection i have to see them. :evil: :woohoo:
Yes due to these serials only i bought computer and installed internet :woohoo: so that i may use it while she sees the serials and i do that but still sometimes when there is problem with net connection i have to see them. :evil: :woohoo:

Don't tell me you'll stop using computer if she stops watching serials especially Sas, Bahu. ;)
Yes due to these serials only i bought computer and installed internet :woohoo: so that i may use it while she sees the serials and i do that but still sometimes when there is problem with net connection i have to see them. :evil: :woohoo:

Don't tell me you'll stop using computer if she stops watching serials especially Sas, Bahu. ;)


I don't know if i will stop or not not i have not started it if she had left the habit of watching serials. :laugh:
Friends i think topic got diverted towards serials and computer. The actual topic is marriage without dowry and I request please discuss about it
I got a nice Boddunan article about Dowry written by Reshmi.
Please have a look
http://www.boddunan.com/people-a-places/59-customs-and-culture/19166-dowry-or-bride-burning.html
Its nice link which show the exact picture of marriage and harassment for dowry.
Nicely written and i have missed it. Appreciable article.
I got a nice Boddunan article about Dowry written by Reshmi.
Please have a look
http://www.boddunan.com/people-a-places/59-customs-and-culture/19166-dowry-or-bride-burning.html


Wow, i missed this. very good article shared here. :cheer: :)
Now a days boys are changing as it became less people in taking this dowry.
My marriage occurred without giving any dowry.I feel this is a big crime.Taking dowry is considered a crime but according to me giving dowry is the biggest crime.
I am not yet married yet. But, as of now me and my parents decided not get any dowry for my marriage. :)

great to hear this vinodh. Your parents are very kind . :) :)
Now a days the boys are changing but the girls parents has to change So Sad.:(
Today Dowary word is out dated as today people give money because daughter remain happy and healthy.Custom is same but words are changed......
Now a days dowry has become the status of the family, though the bridegroom family has alot of money in crores, then also they are demanding money in huge from bride. This is really an injustice thing. Some people if they have 3 sons, then they keeps a rule that first person I mean the bride of first son should give them more money as dowry so that same amount they can demand from other brides in their family. If they wont demand for first one then they feel that they wont get their demanded money from the next 2 brides.

Really injustice this dowry system.
Now a days dowry has become the status of the family, though the bridegroom family has alot of money in crores, then also they are demanding money in huge from bride. This is really an injustice thing. Some people if they have 3 sons, then they keeps a rule that first person I mean the bride of first son should give them more money as dowry so that same amount they can demand from other brides in their family. If they wont demand for first one then they feel that they wont get their demanded money from the next 2 brides.

Really injustice this dowry system.


Actually, problem with such families (having 3 boys only) can never understand a girl's mind or the difficulties of her parents. They can't even tolerate even if promised money can't be given at given time. They even forget what they have got.

Perhaps they may be thinking, girl can't eat free food from sasural.
I am not yet married yet. But, as of now me and my parents decided not get any dowry for my marriage. :)

great to hear this vinodh. Your parents are very kind . :) :)


Actually, if bride decide not to take dowry, nothing on earth can stop him.

I never feel bad for giving girls also something. It's their blessings to keep the future of their daughter more secure. They may be giving their sons also. But demanding dowry, I can't withstand :angry: :angry: :angry:

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