Marriage without dowry

I am married without giving any dowry. In fact most of the marraige expenses were taken care by my husband's family. They did not take any furniture or any major gifts from my family.. :)

20-30 years back Dowry was demanded with force but today parent give it to their daughter.It continue but way are changed.......

That Nice and it show that there are still some who are against these System.But everyone is not just as you.......

I had married with out taking dowry. I also want others to follow this one.

Hope more and more truly educated persons come forward to stop this heinous practice!

Yes of course.
It can come to an end only if the groom/boy thinks so and remain firm in his decision, that's very rare nowadays.
I am very happy to say about my dearest friend Prasad...I have already told a lot about him in the jealous thread, has made him boddunan member also.
Last month he got married. He has a good job in government sector. Yet, he told him parents that he will never marry for dowry. Last month, he married a girl from a very poor family.
My friend is really 1 among 1000. :)

Sasi now now turned to Gabbar singh.You need not dowry.Gabbar ko to sirf thakur chahiye.

Thakur ka haath :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Also Basanthi's dance...

Really a nice name Sasi...... :)
I also misunderstood it first ;)

This is the latest movie name of my favuorite hero So I changed name with picture.

I had married with out taking dowry. I also want others to follow this one.

Hope more and more truly educated persons come forward to stop this heinous practice!

Yes of course.
It can come to an end only if the groom/boy thinks so and remain firm in his decision, that's very rare nowadays.
I am very happy to say about my dearest friend Prasad...I have already told a lot about him in the jealous thread, has made him boddunan member also.
Last month he got married. He has a good job in government sector. Yet, he told him parents that he will never marry for dowry. Last month, he married a girl from a very poor family.
My friend is really 1 among 1000. :)

My warm congrats and good wishes to your friend, we need youngsters greater in numbers!

Ya you are right this example proves this fact better and i wish every one gets friend like your friend......

I had married with out taking dowry. I also want others to follow this one.

Hope more and more truly educated persons come forward to stop this heinous practice!

Yes of course.
It can come to an end only if the groom/boy thinks so and remain firm in his decision, that's very rare nowadays.
I am very happy to say about my dearest friend Prasad...I have already told a lot about him in the jealous thread, has made him boddunan member also.
Last month he got married. He has a good job in government sector. Yet, he told him parents that he will never marry for dowry. Last month, he married a girl from a very poor family.
My friend is really 1 among 1000. :)

My warm congrats and good wishes to your friend, we need youngsters greater in numbers!

I am really lucky to get such a nice friend. He is like a vast ocean of knowledge. If he works in forum, definitely he will be the shining star. Chinmayjee, you will like him very much. But what to do, he is a very sincere government employee who never spares even a single moment of working hours. :(

Ya you are right this example proves this fact better and i wish every one gets friend like your friend......

But many have answered in an another thread, when I talked about such friends, they will be jealous. I don't know why :huh:

That's great to know....After hear your word i think we loss one good member.......

That's great to know....After hear your word i think we loss one good member.......

Yes of course. Let us hope he could find some time here in future

Back to the topic.....
Though Kerala is the state that holds maximum educated males of the country, they are not far behind in the greed of money. I think, in the early age itself, parents fix thoughts in the mind of a boy that he should bring wealth to family. Isn't it?
Let me say procedure of Kerala arranged marriages.
When parents look for a groom, definitely they will fix some brokers. They tell brokers, what can they give to their girls. In return, they will also have certain demands about the groom since they are buying him. So brokers will look for such relations only, which suits best on the basis of dowry. Other factors will come only second...qualification, job profile and family back ground of both girl and boy.
When they find, both girl and boy likes each other.....while girl and boy are talking...... outside the home bargaining will be done between elders of both the families about dowry. Even though they never mention the name "Stri dhanan", talks will definitely be there about what the groom will get. If some money is to be paid after a couple of years after marriage, that deal is also done.

I have seen many marriages where boy sends the girl to her home after marriage, if dowry according to contract not given and will take her only if he gets it. Even if it doesn't happen, they will torture the girl in her husband's home, till money is got. The tension, pressure and depression of such girls, when treated in this manner is really heart breaking.
I have seen many such incidents.

Ya you are right sandhya and i wish that no girl is facing such type of brutal condition....Sometime this condition became reason for the death of girls also....

Ya you are right sandhya and i wish that no girl is facing such type of brutal condition....Sometime this condition became reason for the death of girls also....

Yes, of course.
Money is everything...not relationships. If they won't get the money according to contract, they will change their condition, sure.
@Chandan
Are you ready to marry a girl without dowry?

ya of course why not.......Even i suggest all of my friend to marry without dowry.........

ya of course why not.......Even i suggest all of my friend to marry without dowry.........

Let me bookmark this page. I will ask you some days later :P :P :P

ya of course why not.......Even i suggest all of my friend to marry without dowry.........

Let me bookmark this page. I will ask you some days later :P :P :P

Ya of course you bookmark this page when i marry without dowry i invite you on my marriage that day i show you........ :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

ya of course why not.......Even i suggest all of my friend to marry without dowry.........

Let me bookmark this page. I will ask you some days later :P :P :P

Ya of course you bookmark this page when i marry without dowry i invite you on my marriage that day i show you........ :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

If it's a love marriage, there are chances

But if it's an arranged one, chances are low. Yet i am hoping for the best :evil: :evil:

ya of course why not.......Even i suggest all of my friend to marry without dowry.........

Let me bookmark this page. I will ask you some days later :P :P :P

Ya of course you bookmark this page when i marry without dowry i invite you on my marriage that day i show you........ :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

If it's a love marriage, there are chances

But if it's an arranged one, chances are low. Yet i am hoping for the best :evil: :evil:

I don't think it's love marriage so i send you an invitation you have to come for clearing your dought.......... :sick: :sick: :sick: