Indians are remarrying their exes!!!!!!!!!

One of my close friends of PG......so well educated IT professional. She was the most beautiful girl of our class, only one child of her parents, married a senior of our batch...but an arranged marriage as mine. He was working at Bangalore. their marriage lasted for only one month...what a fate!!!! Now also, I am really hurt with it

Personal egos are the main reasons for couple go for divorces these days.This is pure immaturity and their parents should help them in this matter but i have seen these days even the parents don't ask for the compromises. :evil:

Now also, I think, she should have given a second thought. We can't assess a person within 1 month or 2. Isn't it?
He is an IT professional of Bangalore and she phoned her parents to take her to home when he beat her. What he done was not right, 100 %. Yet I think, her parents should have at least asked her to give him a second chance. But they never did, as she was their only kid. Who is right....still I don't know

Now also, I think, she should have given a second thought. We can't assess a person within 1 month or 2. Isn't it?
He is an IT professional of Bangalore and she phoned her parents to take her to home when he beat her. What he done was not right, 100 %. Yet I think, her parents should have at least asked her to give him a second chance. But they never did, as she was their only kid. Who is right....still I don't know[/quote]

I know a similar case happening to one of my distant relations,an IIT product cruelly treating his wife and she was saved from certain death by her family and the case is still before the court.

Now also, I think, she should have given a second thought. We can't assess a person within 1 month or 2. Isn't it?
He is an IT professional of Bangalore and she phoned her parents to take her to home when he beat her. What he done was not right, 100 %. Yet I think, her parents should have at least asked her to give him a second chance. But they never did, as she was their only kid. Who is right....still I don't know

I know a similar case happening to one of my distant relations,an IIT product cruelly treating his wife and she was saved from certain death by her family and the case is still before the court.[/quote]

Yet, I feel she should have given him a little more time. He was senior at our college and marriage has happened when both of them agreed. Of course, it was not a love marriage.

Such unfortunate cases do take place in all kinds of marriages.In fact and not surprisingly in greater numbers in 'arranged marriages'.

Ya because in arranged marriage we are not aware of the behavior of each other may be this the reason for taking divorce......

Ya because in arranged marriage we are not aware of the behavior of each other may be this the reason for taking divorce......

Ya, no proper understanding before marriage. Yet, most of our arranged marriages survived, 2 decades back. Isn't it? :huh: Then why it's not happening nowadays when love marriages are more frequent? :blink: :blink:

Ya because in arranged marriage we are not aware of the behavior of each other may be this the reason for taking divorce......

Ya, no proper understanding before marriage. Yet, most of our arranged marriages survived, 2 decades back. Isn't it? :huh: Then why it's not happening nowadays when love marriages are more frequent? :blink: :blink:

Ya now days we enjoy our love life before marriage and when marriage takes place then there is nothing to enjoy may be this is the reason............... :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

Ya because in arranged marriage we are not aware of the behavior of each other may be this the reason for taking divorce......

Ya, no proper understanding before marriage. Yet, most of our arranged marriages survived, 2 decades back. Isn't it? :huh: Then why it's not happening nowadays when love marriages are more frequent? :blink: :blink:

Ya now days we enjoy our love life before marriage and when marriage takes place then there is nothing to enjoy may be this is the reason............... :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

But marriages should be long-lasting. It's a promise to be kept till death. Isn't it?

Ya because in arranged marriage we are not aware of the behavior of each other may be this the reason for taking divorce......

Ya, no proper understanding before marriage. Yet, most of our arranged marriages survived, 2 decades back. Isn't it? :huh: Then why it's not happening nowadays when love marriages are more frequent? :blink: :blink:

Ya now days we enjoy our love life before marriage and when marriage takes place then there is nothing to enjoy may be this is the reason............... :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:

But marriages should be long-lasting. It's a promise to be kept till death. Isn't it?

Ya you are true and marriage is last long but i am talking about those people who only marriage in sake of money........ ;) ;) ;)

But marriages should be long-lasting. It's a promise to be kept till death. Isn't it?[/quote]

Supposed to be for all the wrong reasons! The life of any marriage depends on so many variables!

The marriage completely depends up on the both person who got married that is husband and wife.If anyone break it , it causes and creates problem at such conditions people are marrying their exes

Firstly they not realise their mistake and they commit divorce but after sometime they aware of their mistake then they decide to marry their exes....

Firstly they not realise their mistake and they commit divorce but after sometime they aware of their mistake then they decide to marry their exes....

These fellows like change. When they are fed up with a relation, they break. Later, they get interested again in same relation and marry again.

This is like disliking a dish one day but after gap of a few days again developing a like for that.

YA you are right sir when they like they accept relation otherwise leave the relation that doesn't need to happen....Am i right sir?

I read this news in Times of India yesterday? We all aware that divorces are increased in India than earlier days.

What do you think on those who divorced and remarrying the ex-partner?

You can read the article here.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man/woman/Why-are-divorced-Indians-remarrying-their-exes/articleshow/13119341.cms

Honestly it is an individuals choice since marriage is a private affair.No doubt that the respective families also get involved when two people get married.I personally feel that if there is unhappiness in a marriage and for reason they divorce ,then both the partners should have the opportunity to find happiness again...

YA all of them are free to do but maintaining good relationship is necessary.........

Sorry Sreekala I did not find any Indians who are remarrying their exes so I shall ask you while you come net month.

I read this news in Times of India yesterday? We all aware that divorces are increased in India than earlier days.

What do you think on those who divorced and remarrying the ex-partner?

You can read the article here.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man/woman/Why-are-divorced-Indians-remarrying-their-exes/articleshow/13119341.cms

I suppose from the children's point of view, also probably also from the couples point of view this is a good thing - saves a lot of headache of getting adjusted to another person and may be even make things better because both know what the flash points are ..

Well, it could be that the couple could've realized their mistakes and decided to make amendments... But it just tells us how unstable Indians can be, doesn't it?... Marriage, divorce, everything is being made fun of... Sounds like trial and error to me... And relationships aren't supposed to be determined that way...

It is very good news about remarrying with exes. Life can be started with new look.