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Is our marriage system is right?

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Friends the Indian marriage system is right or wrong? (arranged Marriage)

what do you say?

Let us see how many will support it

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U
Our marriage system is one of the best in world. However depressed partners live together. I know few of them who have no interest in their married life but still living together.
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U
There have been many changes in the Indian arranged marriage system .Times have changed and every institution including the institution of marriage has undergone a lot of changes.I neither support it nor am I against it.It does work for some but it also has its own disadvantages..
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U
I agree but some of the traditions are going on the way they used to. In most of the rural cases things haven't changed a bit.
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U
Yes many marriage systems are not changed some of them little bit changed they added technology to the marriage systems.
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U
Our marriage system has many unwanted elements like dowry, extra expenses etc which are to be removed to make it right
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U
Yes many marriage systems are not changed some of them little bit changed they added technology to the marriage systems.


How?
Which technology added? :dry: :blink:
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U
I think love marriage is better because in love marriage we understand each other and spent our whole life ......................


then why divorces occur in love marriages..??
Sometimes even a whole life is not sufficient enough to know a person... :evil: :evil: Some do adjust ....some don't
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U
For any marriage, the main thing is mutual understanding.
In some love marriage with in months people are taking divorce, that means the thing which they felt as love is not love it is just attraction
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U
Sandhya we can see many incidents now a days in televisions and news papers.
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U
For any marriage, the main thing is mutual understanding.
In some love marriage with in months people are taking divorce, that means the thing which they felt as love is not love it is just attraction


If it's the case of an arranged marriage, what's it's chances of mutual attraction at first time??????
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U
In India most of the people do arranged marriage and i don't think its to be bad as i had an arranged marriage 7 yeras back and we are living life together happily. :)
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U
In India most of the people do arranged marriage and i don't think its to be bad as i had an arranged marriage 7 yeras back and we are living life together happily. :)


Yes Sanjeev...
Actually west is jealous with us seeing binding of relationships...two people living togetehr whole life together. It's also lies in its custom and characteristics binding two families together making new relations
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U
But now a days arranged marriages are getting less when compared previous.
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U
But now a days arranged marriages are getting less when compared previous.


But people are more realistic too
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U
Love marriages and arranged marriages are done equally, you may observed only love marriages only, but i observed both. Especially boys are having love marriages more than the girls.
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U
Love marriages and arranged marriages are done equally, you may observed only love marriages only, but i observed both. Especially boys are having love marriages more than the girls.


then how equation is balanced? :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
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U
Yes, as many arranged marriages are been performed those many love marriage are also been performed. So both are balanced. In love marriages boys only make love marriages. there are few marriage which love and arranged one.
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U
Yes, as many arranged marriages are been performed those many love marriage are also been performed. So both are balanced. In love marriages boys only make love marriages. there are few marriage which love and arranged one.


Still now, my doubt is not cleared. :huh:
How a marraige is possible without a girl?
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U
Yes our marriage system is right only.

many arranged marriage couples living their happy life.
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U
I understood your doubts sandhya, I mean most of the girls are conviened to have arranged marriage though they want to have love marriage. but boys are not like that,if they fall in love and decide to have love marriage and they will do. so love marriages are also happening and arranged marriages also happening. But boys are having more love marriage compared to girls
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