Do you hesitate to say "SORRY" to anyone?

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Earlier i was hesitate when i have to say sorry to someone for any mistake or anything because of my ego. But from the day I started doing so I feel good. Because I feel that atleast I have done my part now its upto that person to forget me or not. But i feel a little bit calm after doing so.

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I always says sorry to anyone if the mistake is mine. :) it makes my mind peace.
I too say sorry to the people for the mistake i done and some time i say sorry without any mistake for the people to feel good and satisfy their ego. Saying sorry is not wrong.and it wont show that we are in low level.
I never hesitate to say sorry to people if i am wrong :whistle: otherwise i expect others to say sorry to me :) if i am not.Yes people don't easily say sorry because of ego problem :evil: .They should understand that to say sorry if they are wrong is good way to keep relationships healthy. :)
Yes, saying sorry will keep our relationship healthy. I always use to say sorry as first if the mistake is mine. :)
I don't feel hesitate to say "sorry" to anyone. If I am right, I don't speak but if I am wrong, I instantly say "sorry".
Earlier i was hesitate when i have to say sorry to someone for any mistake or anything because of my ego. But from the day I started doing so I feel good. Because I feel that atleast I have done my part now its upto that person to forget me or not. But i feel a little bit calm after doing so.


Whenever there is my mistake i never hesitate to say sorry to that person. Its the sign of valuing the relation more than your ego.
I don't hesitate to say sorry to anyone if I have foult.Otherwise I never say sorry.
I do not hesitate to say 'sorry' when I do anything wrong inadvertently. Nobody is always right and so saying 'sorry' must not hurt ego.
I don't mind saying sorry even if the mistake is not mine and the one in front felt offended because they did not understand about my intention and took it in a wrong way. I not only say sorry but try to make them understand. but Never pull the matter beyond a limit.
If the mistake is totally mine, then I do not hesitate to say sorry!

By the way Akanksha, since the word hesitate is a verb, please change the question to "Do you hesitate to say sorry....' and not "are you hesitate...."
I also never hesitate to say sorry to people if there is my mistake.
I think, This is good for good relationship.
If i feel that i have done a mistake, i never hesitate to ask sorry.
yes thats what im feeling from the day since i accepted this that saying sorry is not a tough job even it make me feel good and peaceful from my mind.
Well its human nature to say sorry but I think in some situations by simply saying Sorry we cannt expect forgiveness. I too say Sorry if I am wrong but very rarely expect others to say so.
I never expect sorry from others. If they say sorry for their mistake ok if they wont say ok. no problem for me. I feel soon they will realise
[quote]I never expect sorry from others. If they say sorry for their mistake ok if they wont say ok. no problem for me. I feel soon they will realise [/quote]

Wow, Sarala, you are a big-hearted person!! I am not, if someone is wrong and I am right, then I expect a sorry from that person and will make life misery for him or her until they say sorry! Of course, I do that to the only people who are close to me!
same here also kalyani ji. but not always. actually i dont expect sorry from my dear ones because of their mistakes but i expect that because i love the way they make me feel good and the way they want me to forgive them.
[quote]same here also kalyani ji. but not always. actually i dont expect sorry from my dear ones because of their mistakes but i expect that because i love the way they make me feel good and the way they want me to forgive them.[/quote]

To an extent, you are right but I hate to be taken for granted and not saying sorry definitely falls into that category.
I try to pacify a person up to a certain point, beyond that I become neutral and walk my own way. I don't want to be taken lying down.
Kalyani whatever you said is also right. People who do mistake should say sorry and we should expect sorry. But I feel why to expect things from others. I used to expect sorrys and many things from others. But what ever we expect we never get, so expecting and getting hurted is not right. Lets stop expecting and be cool. For everything god is there. God will make the person realize and god will only make the person say sorry.

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