What Makes You Depressed?

Depression arises out of frustration of ambitions, objects and expectations. If you are emotionally attached to some object, person or place too much and for some reason you lose or move away, depression follows. I remember that when in early twenties, I was deeply attached to a transistor set. One morning, this was stolen. I was so depressed that I could not be normal for many days. I loved that particular set and even another set would not satisfy.

No not often i feel like emotionally drained. :laugh:

I try to recover it soon whenever i am sad.I know there is no solution of being sad and getting in to depression for anything. :)

Now this is totally different from getting angry. There may be 1001 reasons to get depressed. Some times not getting the smallest of things can send us in depressed state where as one never feels bad even if he/she loses the best of his assets.

Depression upsets you more than tears....Isn't it?
Always, a bad word from a dear one will make me depressed though I rarely show it :)

im being sad if something which my desire thing has not happen. But, i will recover from that easily. :)

Some times misunderstandings make you feel bad, however, this is best to think it twice before reaching to a conclusion, they may be not as bad as we make them out.

Some times misunderstandings make you feel bad, however, this is best to think it twice before reaching to a conclusion, they may be not as bad as we make them out.

Misunderstandings always cause conflict between people. :) One should always confirm before taking any decision as sometime we may have to repent afterwards. :)

Depression comes when start a job and do not get success or do not finish.

Depression comes when start a job and do not get success or do not finish.

And sometimes even we finish the job but not as per the way we have thought to finish it. :laugh: then also we get depressed. :)

I think depression and disappointment are two different things and we should not let our disappointments turn into depressions!

I think depression and disappointment are two different things and we should not let our disappointments turn into depressions!

disappointments disappear easily...but depressions are not!!!!

Some times misunderstandings make you feel bad, however, this is best to think it twice before reaching to a conclusion, they may be not as bad as we make them out.

Misunderstandings always cause conflict between people. :) One should always confirm before taking any decision as sometime we may have to repent afterwards. :)

Yes, communication gap always make one feel bad, but thinking over it would make things clear up to your satisfaction.

I think depression and disappointment are two different things and we should not let our disappointments turn into depressions!

disappointments disappear easily...but depressions are not!!!!

Lasting disappointments graduate into depressions!!{CJATTACHMENT ["id": 6333]}

Some times misunderstandings make you feel bad, however, this is best to think it twice before reaching to a conclusion, they may be not as bad as we make them out.

Misunderstandings always cause conflict between people. :) One should always confirm before taking any decision as sometime we may have to repent afterwards. :)

Yes, communication gap always make one feel bad, but thinking over it would make things clear up to your satisfaction.

Communication is the best way to sort out any issue. :)

Even the wars between the countries also end when they or other countries talk to them and discuss. :)

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Be positive, always, nothing would look as bad.

When my close person like my dad , mom , brother scold me with hurting words then i feel more depressed

We have to look at the reasons behind such behavior and find the reasons.Sometimes our near and dear ones take us to tasks not the heck of it!Their concern,love and overriding sense of well-being have to be kept in mind!

Well said, chinmoy. you defined and described very understandable manner.

Sometimes,when i get sad,i really get upset and for a while,i stop thinking but my heart quickly tells me that to get solution,you can't stop thinking.
So, I come out from that situation and start to think positively.

Exactly Ronark, that spirit is needed. when something which is impossible to come back in our life occur then its difficult to keep out from getting depressed. But life must go on so we have to cope up even from such thing.