Do you forgive people easily?

I forgive those people who admit their mistakes. Otherwise, never.

Some people are there who commit mistakes, but never admit it. If we nod our head with them, it's sure, they will repeat it next time too.
But if he feels that I have done something wrong, I never hesitate to forget it, even if it was a major mistake

I forgive those people who admit their mistakes. Otherwise, never.

Some people are there who commit mistakes, but never admit it. If we nod our head with them, it's sure, they will repeat it next time too.
But if he feels that I have done something wrong, I never hesitate to forget it, even if it was a major mistake

That's better as to accept our mistake is the first step one must learn. :)

But due to ego problem people find it difficult so as people hesitate to forgive them. :)

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That's better as to accept our mistake is the first step one must learn. :)

But due to ego problem people find it difficult so as people hesitate to forgive them. :)

If a person is admitting his mistake and if we are not willing to forgive him, we are committing a big mistake. I believe so

I guess its totally depend on matter.. but yes for minor things I forgive people very soon..

I guess its totally depend on matter.. but yes for minor things I forgive people very soon..

i too agree with the point it totally depends on the situation if its a grave one then i shall never forgive the person to let him/her realize the mistake he/she would have done.If its a small mistake then i will forgive thinking the person wont repeat it again

I don't forget any people but often forget his/her good name.This is a disease.

I don't forget any people but often forget his/her good name.This is a disease.

Ayyo chetta..
Question is about forgiving...not forgetting

I forgive people according to their mistake. If their mistake is rectified one then i will forgive or cannot rectified then I will never forgive

Yes,me too,i forgive people very easily.I don't like to be angry with anybody for long time.I feel uncomfortable,when i am in that situation.So,for my sake i forgive people.

I don't forget any people but often forget his/her good name.This is a disease.

:woohoo: forgetting is OK but do you forgive people easily. :)

I do forgive people easily because forgive and forgot are the two gifts given by god to make our life good..

Its purely depends upon the mistake. If It is major mistake then It will take some time for me to forgive them. Small mistakes are easily forgive by me. :)

I think we should try to as simple as we are and should avoid to fight as much as we can.It really hurts when you talk with someone who is very close to you.
So,we should try to forgive people as quick as possible.

I think forgiving is a noble exercise and both the parties involved should be very clean. Any insincerity kills it!

I do not hold any one guilty even for anything done wrong to me. All have different nature and character and may be helpless. All I do is to take precautions to avoid personal harm. I neither blame nor forgive.

If a person hurt me deeply to my heart then I never forgive until that person come to me and say sorry and beg for forgiveness.
I will give you a recent example.

One of my cousin brother and I were quarreling. I didnt use any dailogue which hurt him deeply. But he used a dailogue in which there is no mistake of mine. He said that many guys are coming to your home to see you and you are not ashamed of it. Actually guys coming to my home means they are coming as a match to see me and fix the match. they are coming to my home with their family that is their mom and dad. My parents only allowing them so that they can choose a boy for me to perform my marriage.For this my cousin shoot a such a bad dialogue on me. From then I have stopped talking to him and I decided to make him feel that he has done a such a big mistake by speaking to me like that and I want to prove my self by reaching my goal and getting married with a good person from a good family which my parents prefer.

so if he come and ask for forgiving also I wont forgive. Though people of his family or my family force me to forgive also I wont. if I forgive him then also I wont be talking to him as before I used to talk

If you people are in my position will you forgive the cousine?

If you people are in my position will you forgive the cousine?

Sarala, even a great man can commit mistakes. But if he repents, you should forgive him. Otherwise never......It's only my personal thought.
You know Sarala, after marriage you may come across many relatives, whose words can hurt you so badly. If we compare your cousin with such persons, you may feel in future that he has committed only a silly mistake. :)

If you people are in my position will you forgive the cousine?

I give a person three chances before breaking off for ever. Don't you think that is sufficient?

It's though difficult to forgive sometimes we will do it and sometime the same mistake may repeat. Depending on situation we should react, some serious mistakes should not be encouraged by forgiving them.