You become happy or jealous?????

Mostly all feel like that way.. It is like mix feeling of happiness and jealous.

We are all human. Feeling of jealousy is inherent in our nature. When a child is born in a family, the siblings- also baby- get somewhat jealous as love and attraction is shared by the newly born. This remains in adulthood also. But if you are more self confident, jealousy will fade.

Yes,what gulshanji told is in human nature,and that is how human's are. :)

Getting intellegent friend is good thing of our life.

there is a proverb having one intellegent friend is better than having a group of fools

It's better to be a servant in the kingdom of wise people than to be king of the kingdom of fools!

But some people would do just the opposite and would try to topple the smarter guy out with Sam, Dam, Dand, Bhed, to sink their own boat perhaps. Because they misjudged the abilities of their smarter friend.

But some people would do just the opposite and would try to topple the smarte guy out with Sam, Dam, Dand, Bhed, to sink their own boat perhaps. Because they misjudged the abilities of their smarter friend.

Misjudging someone is bad you never know he/she can be smarter than you. :)

I have seen in many instances that we think someone weaker comes out to be lot more stronger than us. :)

Never mind, this is the way life is. We know it but some times we forget it. But that's perfect human, no comments.

There are some people who beat on others tummy. I dont know how they feel happy by making others hardwork waste and they feel happy. If they feel jealous of the person who is winning then they should take it a challenge and work harder than the person who is working harder and winning. But blackmailing them and making them feel bad and making loss to their effort is really bad. For such a thing God also wont forgive them

That is right people sometime don't take competition as a competition which spoils the sport.People should not feel jealous instead they should take inspiration and try to perform better than this person. :)

You can compete in competition,but in pressure a person performs well.
Jealous should be inside. You should not show you jealous outside,that should be remembered.

I am talking little differently,but that fact is that any person,performs much better in pressure.

May be I would have felt jealous two three years before but now definitely not

I even have jealous when any one are good in their career and their life as i feel i would have done all those then i also would be in such position and happy like that person but i never try to destroy that persons life or career with my jealous. more over i try to help that person and even learn how that person became good in their career and life and i note everything and i prepare my own planning and try to reach such position

It's better to be a servant in the kingdom of wise people than to be king of the kingdom of fools!

Now I remember one story quoted from Vernica decides to die.

Once there was a kingdom with a king and queen. His enemy country wants to ruin him. The king found that, all people of the country are using water from a common well. So, he spreads some medicine into it and after drinking the water, all people began to behave as if they are mad, doing foolish things.
But King and queen didn't use water from that common well. So, they could find, something has happened to their subjects. They tried to correct them saying you all are mad. But they don't believe him and said, "King and queen are mad. So, we should select another king and they should be killed/exiled". They smell their danger. At once, queen got an idea and asked her husband, "Let's drink that water from well, if we want to stay here". King also agreed and they drank the water from the well and began to do foolish things like others.
Now, his subjects have no problem with the king and they allowed him to rule the country :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :silly: :blink: :blink: :woohoo:

Sandhya can you tell me what is the relation between the story narrated by you and the saying of the chinmoy. I didnt understand

Sandhya can you tell me what is the relation between the story narrated by you and the saying of the chinmoy. I didnt understand

Not much related....just it came to my mind. So, I quoted it for you people to laugh a little bit.

I just remembered about that king of fools....ha ha

May be april fool came due to this story :) :p

May be april fool came due to this story :) :p

So, quoted for fools of Boddunan on April fool month...haha

I feel proud and try to learn some good activity that help me in future.................

If my friend is smart then I feel happy but if he heart me by his smartness then i feel jealous.