You become happy or jealous?????

When any one are good in their life then i feel jealous that I should also try to go to such a level but I never think negatively that I should destroy them

You call it jealousy? This is kind of inspirational, way different from jealousy. We learn some thing from them, not envy them.

You call it jealousy? This is kind of inspirational, way different from jealousy. We learn some thing from them, not envy them.

Yes, of course. It will only help and motivate us to grow a little more

But we can not call it jealousy, I learnt how to insert giffys here from you, now I am jealous of you. ;) :evil: :whistle:

yes, sunny you are right we can even call it as inspiration also

Thank you so much again. I am so proud of you.

Jealous is something like thinking bad about a more intelligent person when he/she overtakes you in any matter..and I think I dont have that nature.

Any one who has a common sense and his/her own sense of thinking and analyzing would think the same way. There is nothing to feel jealous as long as one is not under inferiority complex or lack of knowledge.

I feel happy because i have got a great friend and i can learn a lot from him.

I feel happy because i have got a great friend and i can learn a lot from him.

May I know whom are you referring to? This would be nice to know him.

Yes a real friend always ready to help other friends and it is difficult to get a real friend.

Yes,its very difficult to find such a friend that gives you support in all situations.I am still in search of that,i haven't found even one.

Guys,make sure that you should have fews friends,which believes in you and gives you support.

Friends are very important in your life.

Yes,its very difficult to find such a friend that gives you support in all situations.I am still in search of that,i haven't found even one.

Guys,make sure that you should have fews friends,which believes in you and gives you support.

Friends are very important in your life.

Yes friends are essential in life like anyone as there are things which you can share it with friends only. :)

I do have lot of friends with whom i share my feelings sometimes i feel lighter when i share my sorrows with them and feel more happier when i share my happiness with them. :)


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Yes everyone like to go pass to other person in every form of life if other pass him then he become jealous.

Ya It is good to have a nice and kind natured smart and intelligent friend as a good friend takes us to good path also

Ya It is good to have a nice and kind natured smart and intelligent friend as a good friend takes us to good path also

Really I loved it!!!!!

Yes, I personally believe that, if we have an intelligent friend, it will only help us.
In our language there is a proverb, meaning, "FULLY FILLED POT NEVER SPIT/Overflow. "...i.e Only half filled pot makes noice.
If he is really an intelligent person, he will never feel jealous, since he is well confident over himself.
If we get such a friend in our life, we are really lucky because he can never harm us.
I do have a friend. I have made him join this site, though he can't find time.
Till now, I think he is the most intelligent person I have ever met in my life..I am no one before his knowledge....literature, philosophy, GK, English grammar, Malayalam movies, he is an ocean. I can disturb him at any time even with my silly questions. I will get answers readily. So, when I have such a friend, do I need to feel trouble for unknown answers????
Really I feel proud to tell you people also that I have an intelligent friend.
If I feel jealous with him, will it help me???? Will I be able to increase my knowledge?????Never.......as it is told, "Blowing another one's candle will never make yours shine better"
What's your opinion???

yes, sandhya, you are absolutely correct. blowing another one's candle will never make yours shine better"

But I believe that " light your candle by borrowing fire from others candle"

that means we should take inspiration and work out but we should not feel jealous of it and make loss to the person who is in good position

yes, sandhya, you are absolutely correct. blowing another one's candle will never make yours shine better"

But I believe that " light your candle by borrowing fire from others candle"

that means we should take inspiration and work out but we should not feel jealous of it and make loss to the person who is in good position

Really, you have added something nice....i have never noticed it earlier.
So, you have brought up that thread back to discussion...isn't it?
So nice of you.

Yes, this is the same friend I am talking about. :)

Sandhya , what are you talking about? I didnt understand your last line

I become first happy and later become jealous and try to become like him.