You become happy or jealous?????

You see if some one takes other's success for motivation there wont arise lots of problems. I never feel jealous toward any one.

I am jealous of you too but that's the reason I try hard to earn online as per my potential. :woohoo:

You are most welcome to feel more jealous. But I am not jealous of your offline job but wish you to bypass your boss. :) :)

SJ, I said about the jealous of the negative side, what you said is the positive side of the jealousy

Why should any one think the negative side of a problem. One should always remain positive to never feel bad in any case.

Sunil ji, elders says that before doing or thinking anything, we should think on both sides that is negative and positive side

Why should any one think the negative side of a problem. One should always remain positive to never feel bad in any case.

Every Negative thought has been generated by us. Until and unless, we won't think positive, nothing is going to happen. The life works on the law of Attraction. If you will feel happy, then you are going to attract happiness and if you are going to feel bad, then bad things will be attracted.

We should not waste time in complaining. Think positive and you will feel difference.

Start from Zero and believe me, you will get your path to achieve what you want.

Sunil ji, elders says that before doing or thinking anything, we should think on both sides that is negative and positive side

Yes we must think twice when we are going to any thing.

But sasikanth, we should think twice, but most of it we should think positively. Then only we will get good positive result

Sunil ji, elders says that before doing or thinking anything, we should think on both sides that is negative and positive side

Yes we must think twice when we are going to any thing.

Think twice or thrice that is someone's personal choice but while all the thinking has been done this is positive thinking that brings a result, a positive result.

But sasikanth, we should think twice, but most of it we should think positively. Then only we will get good positive result

Madamji, you are learning very fast. :) :)

yes, ronark, such important things should be learnt as much as possible that much fast or else it will be late

Indeed I feel proud of him, there is no option for jealous.

I guess it all depends on how the friend is behaving

If he/she is arrogant, I will be motivated to do better than him/her

Alternately, if he/she is humble and really close to you
I will be proud of him/her of achieving something

SJ, I said about the jealous of the negative side, what you said is the positive side of the jealousy

It depends on person to person how they take it. I know there are people who consider negative points before starting or doing anything its good as we must consider both the aspects before doing anything. :blink:

No in some sense I just feel that If I could take my friends position.I feel to get such honor which my friend received for being so good in all activities.

My friend Sudha used to say we should not jealous about each other, then only we can love other 100% and will maintain true friendship. :cheer: :cheer: :cheer: we used to keep forever.

It is true that nobody is perfect. Everybody in the world has a unique ability. The main factor is to identify them. So i never feel jealous for my friend. Because we all have some special abilities. :)

Suppose, you get a new friend, who is very smart and intelligent, far far better than you. What will you feel...happy and proud to get such an intelligent friend or do you become jealous?
Never hide the truth please...... :)

Neither.
I shall test the depth of his/ her knowledge or skills,if he/ she is inferior to me. If inferior I offer my helping hand to lift her/ him up to my level,
If I'm inferior, i shall sit at his /her feet and learn from him / her with all reverence.

Suppose, you get a new friend, who is very smart and intelligent, far far better than you. What will you feel...happy and proud to get such an intelligent friend or do you become jealous?
Never hide the truth please...... :)

I have already that friend in my life. I feel very proud to have such friend.

Suppose, you get a new friend, who is very smart and intelligent, far far better than you. What will you feel...happy and proud to get such an intelligent friend or do you become jealous?
Never hide the truth please...... :)

If i get such friend then i will learn as much as possible from my friend.

I never been jealous of friend. I feel i got a good friend who can teach me where am wrong